just wanted to say the reason why i posted "open/unsure" on kids is because i already have a 9yr old and would be content with just him but it depends on who you find. so i am open to possibly having another one but also content with my son. i think women between the age group you discussed are either already going to have a child or children. if they don't most women probably want to atleast experience motherhood for themselves not saying there isn't a lady out there who would be happy just being step-mom. anyway it just takes time to find what your looking for. you may find in the end you will have to compromise :) good luck