I read the posts in here and I do get what everyone is trying to say. But aren't we deviating from the original thought? I mean TRUE LOVE isn't something that happens outta the blue guys. It happens over time. The time you get to know someone better. You need to know the other person well to truly fall for her/him. Not necessarily that you need to get intimate with someone to do that. Intimacy goes a long way in telling you a lot of things about your partner/love interest.But one can still get to know a person without that. But the whole "Mujhe sachcha pyaar ho gaya hai" statement for someone you don't even know doesn't wash. I mean you can fall in love with someone as soon as you start hanging out with them but to TRULY fall in love takes a lifetime or so i guess.. :-p Been in a six year long relationship. I know she was my one true love. That's not gonna come back. So you steel your head and move on as best as you can.