Hate rude people with rude emails ---- sorry to hear that!

Well, then it just could be their age. Do either of them have any
medical issues? If not, just be firm and patient -- I have heard of
little boys peeing because they were lazy in drawers -- but it is hard
to imagine a little girl doing that -- not to be mean to little boys!
Maybe she is afraid of the potty -- potty training might be hard at that
age -- so make sure her little potty is close and she feels good about
using it.

I am not a parent, but I do work around children -- and I bet the little
one who peed in the drawer is just acting out. I would always suggest
firm and gentle and loving parenting. Kids that switch houses can find
it hard to adjust from one house to another and sometimes it takes time
for them to understand the rules and boundaries of each house. If their
mother lets them get away with this kind of crap, it will always be hard
for you to be a firm parent. I say, just snuggle, cuddle, read, play
outside -- take them for walks and be patient -- and love them -- and be
a firm parent and don't let yourself get frustrated and mad. Good luck

So, if you have lots of R's in your name

That's sweet and generous of you -- and when they get older they will
appreciate what you have given them. for now, just cuddle with them on
your lap -- read to them and play monster with them and when they are
exhausted and ready for bed -- they have their new bunk beds to fall
asleep in. Keep being a good daddy --