I just recently lost my wife to cancer. We believed that God could heal her but she passed away. Now I could shake my fist at God and scream WHY?! but that would probably do nothing more than echo back to me. If you look at a picture of something taken from an airplane and then compare it to a picture of the earth taken from outer space, you begin to see how God sees things. We use our senses to evaluate what is going on around our own lives. God sees the entire picture, not just us. Who am I to argue with what was best for my wife? As one person said, bad things happen to good people. To begin to understand any of this you must first be willing to acknowledge God for what he is, all powerful, and turn your life over to him no matter what comes your way. His main concern, as someone stated, is for the salvation of our souls so that one day we may be with Him. That is why we were created in the first place. He wants our love, friendship, and trust just as we do with each other. I hope this helps.