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Sat 01/24/09 04:10 AM
Just got home, how is everyone?

Is this where everyone is hanging out? lol

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Fri 01/23/09 06:41 PM

If there is anyone out there who knows the answer to this question, I would really like to know. If a man has a woman, who is faithful, and would have sex with him whenever he likes, why would that man cheat?


Because "dogs" do what "dogs" do, whether they are the four legged kind or the two legged.

Find yourself a man and put the dog outside.

Best of luck flowerforyou

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Fri 01/23/09 06:29 PM

...you allow kissing to be permitted? Have you ever found yourself in such a situation? How did it turn out?


Kissing, yes!


Pushing your tonuge down someones throat as you throw them to the ground in the middle of the dance floor.. errr.. no.


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Fri 01/23/09 06:21 PM
Edited by JoeW99 on Fri 01/23/09 06:21 PM

OH OH, you should also find yourself a "Nice Guy". We currently have a wide selection for you to choose from! Just check out the daily nice guy threads to browse!

(hey if we don't get them hooked up, the threads will never stop)

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Fri 01/23/09 06:14 PM
Let's just make it simple.

Take friendship out of the equation for one minute, because if they are truely your friends they will respect the any decision you make.

If this was a job would you quit? Room and board to be a live in housekeeper/nanny.

If the answer is yes, leave. Find a "job" that you are happy with.

If the answer is no, then i hope you find peace with "YOUR" choice.

In the end, you make the call. It's your life, not ours.

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Fri 01/23/09 06:03 PM

I'm getting email from guys asking if I want to chat with them. Cool, but the emails don't say anything else and most of their blogs don't say anything else. In a bar men ask to chat and if they're cute then hell yea I chat but here I imagined getting emails with some information about the guy or a witty joke or something.
I don't know how to respond to these messages. I can't just chat with a dozen guys everyday because I do have other things to do. When I tried saying, thanks but I don't think we'd work out, I get the response, how do you know if we don't chat?

I was wondering how the other women of mingle2 handled these messages? Do you just ignore them or send them one note? What if they are posting on the forums is that different?

I want to be polite but I'm not attached to this computer 24/7.
Guys, I already know your ideas but sorry, I can't sleep with every guy who emails. My bed is not that big.


Not really about being polite, it just about setting parameters you are comfortable with.

The one-liners you get... respond with a one liner back, people usually get the hint.

As far as offers to chat why bother? I don't even use IM with anyone till i have exchanged 3 or 4 emails getting to know them.

You can deal with the cyber offers how you see fit depending on your mood. I use the old " not into cold showers or dirty keyboards atm, but thanks."

Well i'm still kinda of new here so maybe that's why i get so much mail still.. something new.

Best of luck with everything.flowerforyou

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Fri 01/23/09 05:54 PM


You say its 1952 but let me tell you a lot of women think the way I have expressed above.............I am independent but when it comes to courting someone I think that it starts with the man.........I dont have anything against paying but the man has the burden........and I dont care if im in 2067 I will not open my pockets when a man asks me out period.............Now if he is my man best believe when I have it he has it and vise versa...........but for a guy looking to get to know me...............lol YOUR PAYING


So then the question becomes, if you ask him out? Or is that taboo to you also?


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Fri 01/23/09 05:44 PM


maybe agrant, but i need more than that.



Perhaps...but writing to me & saying you needed a little "poon poon" is no way to go about it...grumble


Ahh the wounded dove that turned into a vulture. Interesting tactic.. sad, but interesting.

Might want to devise another way of gaining attention, like i don't know... be yourself.

Best of luck in Ohio.

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Fri 01/23/09 05:36 PM
Really it's a simple answer:

If you are concerned with money while in the dating stages of a relationship to the degree of who is picking up a 50 dollar dinner bill or a 10 dollar movie ticket.. get out. The level of interest isn't there. You will find when you are with the "right" person, little things like that don't matter.

As far as how i currently date, i always pay for the first date. Based on interest level if i ask her out again, i again pay.. if she asks me out, she usually pays. Maybe i'm different but someone with a little independence is sexy to me. I don't want or need a puppy as a mate.

As far as past long term relationships, you will find things tend to even out in different ways.

Oh and for the women that say they should NEVER PAY ...

<----------1952 that way.

Hello welcome to 2009, hope you enjoy the stay.flowerforyou

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Fri 01/23/09 05:12 PM
Edited by JoeW99 on Fri 01/23/09 05:13 PM




Get out of that situation immediately. They're taking advantage of you and you're letting them. They are taking you for granted and not even bothering to hide the fact. Don't let them use you. They aren't paying you right? Yr not their employee, right? Slavery has been abolished right? You have free will. Use it
ummmm if she is staying there and not paying them dont u suppose she should be doing something?...... there is not enough information here
From what I gathered she lives at home but spends days at her friends house taking care of her friends baby and being ordered around by her friends parents who also insult her.
awwww but doesnt say that does it?laugh :wink: flowerforyou


Even if it doesn't say that... or even if it's not that way, i would say it's time she invested time into her own life. Time to make a path in life for herself and figure out what makes "her" happy.

Seems she has spent enough of her life looking out for others and what makes them happy.

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Fri 01/23/09 01:35 AM

devil Scared little boys..........need to grow up!!!


I don't think the devil symbol is really going to help the scared situation when it comes to the topic of commitment!

BTW: Ever heard of a white lie? I'm sorry, just not ready for commitment MEANS: HELL NO, I'M NOT SETTLING FOR YOU!

just saying...

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Fri 01/23/09 01:32 AM


four....

oooohhhh baby i just want to vidoe tape you for i have you with me when your not here....


Think she is breaking down, by the time you get to pitch 1001 she is yours!

go man go!

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Fri 01/23/09 01:28 AM



Stop the Madness!!! never admit to being spelling challenged!!! just blame it on your keyboard!!!!

Hi and Welcome!!! enjoy the madness and have a great time!! good luck in your search and your spelling issuesslaphead waving
hooose ggut splling isuse...@ i pased candergurrden, how u lik mee nowe ?explode WelKum Homme noway noway

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IIi meen.. pased BBYE candergurrden


Ok gotta know.. did you type that last part with your forhead?

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Fri 01/23/09 01:26 AM


Hi, My name is Thadd and I live in central Ohio. I am a country-oriented guy who loves the outdoor when things are green and warm, not freezing and white. So January is not my favorite month. I love to read, write, go to movies, ride horseback, take hikes, shop, go to different towns, concerts, roller coasters and just be a friend to someone who is a friend. Hope also to hear from dudes in other parts of the country as well. So hit me up, and don't forget to Cowboy Up as well!flowerforyou


Welcome neighbor. BTW, that photo... Ever thought of how that might look to some people? I mean it really looks like a painful position to be in.


LOL was just about to type that when i read your post!

Yeah.. eerr might want to change it up.

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Fri 01/23/09 01:24 AM

I think the title is pretty much self-explanatory!
But ya'll feel free to share your thoughts on the subject.


Wow man... honesty is great, but not the hammer to the head kind. Give people a chance to know you! Well atleast 1/2 of you. Bi-Polar people make me giggle, had an ex that was one.

"I hate you!"
"No I love you!"
"Hate you!"
"LOVE YOU!"

Would of typed more, but by that time i had driven far enough away not to hear her anymore pitchfork

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Fri 01/23/09 01:14 AM



this is a seriously stupid thread.......


Guys are always making me show my naked body on the webcam!!!!sad sad sad sad laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
you enjoy it !pitchfork laugh :tongue:
I dont know about you but this makes me horny!!!


http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=-bAN7Ts0xBo&feature=channel_page


Was going to say something about this, but a guy in the Youtube comment section said it best-

If Beethoven had seen this, he would instantly killed himself with the keyboard...

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Fri 01/23/09 12:57 AM
night flowerforyou

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Fri 01/23/09 12:55 AM
Edited by JoeW99 on Fri 01/23/09 12:56 AM


he is, and from what i know, you're cool too.drinker


Yeah was shooting for the "nice guy" title but Mirror took the last spot!

So settling for "good guy" for now drinker

Nice to meet you all drinker

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Fri 01/23/09 12:54 AM

ya but if AND ONLY IF im givin it to him not the other way around...... see were online i can talk like this and it dont matter.... because ill never really have to face anyone... ........ OH MY GOD does that make me gay


Close enough in my book.

Can you please stop looking at my butt, kthxbye.

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Fri 01/23/09 12:52 AM





tears Somebody wuz trying to get Peccy to take nekkid pictures of himself and email themtears


Speaking of which! Stop sending my yours! NO means NO!

i feel so dirty... :cry:



:cry: It was you that was trying to emotionally blackmail Peccy into sending you his nekkid picsfrown


Sadly, havn't been here long enough to know who Peccy was. From what everyone is saying he seems like a good guy.


:cry: You wuz trying to get to know him:cry:

frown He told me all about it:tongue:


You're evil, save me a spot in hell if you get there first flowerforyou

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