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Sun 01/11/09 11:02 PM


Nice guys hmm?
Lets be honest here, there is a fine line between being nice and being a push over. Self proclaimed "Nice guys" tend to let anyone and everyone walk all over them. Who the hell would want to be with someone that rolls on command? You accept people crapping on you and never stand up and fight back.

As far as a nice guy lacking confidence, not always true. What i do find however is noone wants to be with a weak person. Mentally weak people tend to give nothing back in a relationship and drain all the energy out of the other person. I consider myself a nice guy yet would still knock the crap out of someone that crosses the line.

So for all those nice guys out there.. be nice, not weak. There is a difference.
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Hey OC, how is everything tonight?

Weekly nice guy thread i see?

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Sun 01/11/09 11:00 PM
Use to be a morning person.. but single life has turned me more into a night owl.

Weekdays- work, come home nap, stay up late, nap then work again.
Weekends- SLEEP, get up to get ready and go out, SLEEP lol..

Sure if i get back into a relationship be more reason to stay up during the day and night.. but for right now it seems to fit my situation.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:55 PM
Nice guys hmm?
Lets be honest here, there is a fine line between being nice and being a push over. Self proclaimed "Nice guys" tend to let anyone and everyone walk all over them. Who the hell would want to be with someone that rolls on command? You accept people crapping on you and never stand up and fight back.

As far as a nice guy lacking confidence, not always true. What i do find however is noone wants to be with a weak person. Mentally weak people tend to give nothing back in a relationship and drain all the energy out of the other person. I consider myself a nice guy yet would still knock the crap out of someone that crosses the line.

So for all those nice guys out there.. be nice, not weak. There is a difference.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:34 PM
Sure what he meant was :

"Have women given up on men?"

Not everyone is perfect... and even if his grammer and spelling lack somthing, he has a valid point. Everyone seems to want an honest / caring person.. but tend to dump on those people when they get them. Before you jump back at me, i'm refering to men and women.

Maybe it's just human nature to pick someone else apart, or maybe i'm just not in that mood tongiht.

Welcome to the site and best of luck.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:28 PM
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Sun 01/11/09 10:26 PM


hey just trying to figure out what topic everyone is hanging at?:smile:


It looks like you have enough ladies in your photo to have fun with.


play nice.. lol..

it was funny but not nice!

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Sun 01/11/09 10:25 PM
Welcome, good luck.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:25 PM
Hello and Welcome.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:24 PM
Hello and Welcome.

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Sun 01/11/09 10:24 PM

I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHEN A WOMAN SAYS A GUY IS TOO NICE


Nice... there is no such thing as too nice. However there is such a thing as a guy that is a push over. Not an attractive trait to most.

Btw if someone is telling you that.. they are probley not wanting anything more then a friendship.

Best of luck on Mingle.

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Sun 01/11/09 02:43 AM



your lucky

Have a boyfriend that I met on here & he doesnt give me enough attetnion.ha

Really like we'll have the best day or night & then I wont hear from him for like 2 weeks.Then the same thing all over.Its getting really frustrating.


Thinking of calling it quites.
So consider yourself lucky
frustrated
my opinion that aint a relationship at all :banana: :banana:



I know right.When people ask if Im in a relationship I dont know what to say.Thats pretty sad right


2 weeks of not hearing from him?!?! Next time someone ask if you are single, say hell yes.

Some guys are just freaking dumb.

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Sun 01/11/09 02:38 AM

only the bearer of the body truly knows


That and their victims.

Don't hate me, had to be said!

(runs away)

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Sun 01/11/09 02:21 AM
Enough to brake off a 3 year relationship over it.

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Sun 01/11/09 02:18 AM
Yeah just got home, was nice.

Got to know her alittle more and have fun.
Guess time will tell where it goes like everything else.

Btw the texting worked just fine lol.
Based on how she acted to see me, sure if i had just shown up it would of went fine as well.

Couple of nice dances tonight and we will see where it goes in the future.

thanks for the advice.

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Sat 01/10/09 07:31 PM



Thats great for ya'll, I can't explain why I miss the states I do....vague statements would be untrue, and explanations wouldn't make all that much sense if kept short

Go Army

I want to know, have you ever seen the rain
Comin down on a sunny day?


All the time here, in Seattle it rains even when the sun is up. To be honest it's the best rain, nice and warm.


CCR reference love, but I never have lived in seattle..you know what they say about when it rains and the sun is shinning?


Yes i know the reference of Creedence Clearwater dear. But no i don't know what they say about rain on a sunny day.

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Sat 01/10/09 07:27 PM
curly!

Gotta have some spice in your life.. even in fries!

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Sat 01/10/09 07:25 PM

Thats great for ya'll, I can't explain why I miss the states I do....vague statements would be untrue, and explanations wouldn't make all that much sense if kept short

Go Army

I want to know, have you ever seen the rain
Comin down on a sunny day?


All the time here, in Seattle it rains even when the sun is up. To be honest it's the best rain, nice and warm.

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Sat 01/10/09 07:17 PM


I've never seen an ass pretzel before.


My first thought, actually, was that I hoped it wasn't shaped like an "azz" but I decided to ignore the voices in my head LOL! laugh


You don't have to ignore the voices in your head, just don't answer them back in public :heart:

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Sat 01/10/09 07:14 PM
Germany for the people.
Wisconsin for the snow.
Arizona for the sun.


And if i ever leave Washington will probley miss the rain.

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Sat 01/10/09 07:12 PM

send an e-mail with a naked pic. attached! :banana:


Still not going to reply to that email BTW!
Not that kinda of guy!

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