I don't think anyone wants to be gay, they are just born that way. I think if sex is so important to you...go and pay for it. You act like being gay would make your life so much easier, I hate to tell you that you are so wrong. I know a few people that are gay..there lives are not so great. People judge you when you are gay and I can't believe that you think just because you are gay, you get laid all the time. You have to use your head and use safe sex when you are gay!
I think that maybe you do not know what you are, maybe you need to look deep into your soul and figure out who you really are? Good luck with that!!!

When I popped on today it showed that I had 7 in my Main..so maybe it is working again???

IF I EVER GET MARRIED AGAIN, I BETTER HAVE SEX OR I AM OUT OF THERE!

I am a big baby at movies, one that sticks out is Ghost. When she looks at him and says NO I REALLY LOVE YOU...I STARTED CRYING RIGHT THERE!! Yep I am a big baby!

Welcome to Mingle.
All I can say is be patient and when the time is right, you will meet someone. Don't sound so desperate or you will settle for anyone.
Join in the community and this is how you can meet different people, but most of all...HAVE FUN!!!

All of a sudden, it stopped showing when I have mail. Do you know why it is doing this? I usually just have to go to mail and check and it says it was sent 20 minutes ago..it is strange because this just started a few days ago. Any help would be appreciated!!!

YOU GO GIRL!!!

I don't think you will find to many obedient women on here. That went out years ago!!
There are plenty of nice women on here, you just have to be the lucky one to catch them!!
Good Luck

Dr Phil did a show on it a few years ago, it has been around for a long time. It is men with money that will fly you out and I do believe that some might be married, but you fly where ever they are working and they pay you to come and spend time with them. In other words, you are a hooker..haha!
They pay your rent or whatever you need to keep them company. I don't think I could do it, even if they gave me lots of money. I would rather have my self respect and pay my own bills then have some sugar daddy taking care of me. I don't like feeling like a wh@re!! LOL

IF I WAS THAT POOR GUY I WOULD BE PACKING A PISTOL!!!

I think it depends on the male, I made more then my husband did and he always brought that up to me. Then when I wanted to go back to school and keep going on my career, he refused to let me. He said that I might find someone more interesting and I might leave him. Little did he know that I was doing it for us, not just for me.
I call that low self esteem if you can not trust your mate to go back to school and finish their degree to make your life better. I will never allow a man to tell me what to do ever again!! My education comes first!!

I don't care who's fault it is, when a child dies, it is heartbreaking. Can you imagine being the parent and not being able to do anything to help your child. That is sad.

If you wear a sweater dress then you have to wear them. Plus you wear you cute little boots and you have a cute little outfit. I think I have one pair and I only wear them when I wear my sweater dress...its cold up north and you can not go without them.
I have friends that wear them all the time. They are comfy and they are warm. Who cares what people think its just a bunch of us girls that get together at each others house and have fun...hey we can wear what we want.

LDR are very hard because you have to have a lot of trust. It is not like you can just jump in the car and go be with that person if you feel like you need to see them. It is rough but IF you love that person and one of you are willing to move, it can work.

Some times you have to forgive them but do you really ever forget? If you don't forgive them..it can really bring you relationship down and effect it. If you don't forgive them sometimes it is better to end the relationship.

No you do not have to sleep with everyone that you have a relationship with. I think some people might do that but it is not always a good thing to sleep with every single person you date.
What if you only date a few times? I know I wouldn't sleep with someone that I have dated only twice.
I think it takes time to get to know someone and you have to have some type of feelings to have a sexual relationship. But of course that is my opinion.

Maybe someone she loves is in the hospital? Why are you reading so much into this? I did therapy about 2 years ago and ran into my therapy guy at Discount Tire and he gave me a hug. We sat there and talked for about 45 minutes, what does that mean? It means we both needed new tires and we just happened to be there at the same time. We hugged each other because when he helped me during my therapy, he was a caring person. Honestly people working in that kind of field, they are very caring and very thoughtful.
I would say don't over think this and don't react to it. There are a lot of kind people out there and maybe she just remembered you? She might have seen you and wondered how you were after all of these years.
See why women don't like to hug guys...we are just trying to be nice but men think it means so much more!

Some times we have to figure out if a relationship is really a priority on our list. I know I was a single mom, working and going to school...it is tough but I did have a boyfriend at the time. He told me that I was not making enough time for him and I had to stop going to school full time. Of course I thought if he really cared he would never ask me to stop going for my career. I actually broke up with him that day because I thought he was not being supportive of me and I didn't need someone like that in my life.
After I broke up with him I decided that I need to work on my career and not worry about men at this time. I will not allow a man or anyone else tell me that I need to spend more time with them and cut out my education in order to spend more time with them. What kind of person does that?
I guess you have to figure out what is best for you! If you want to date, there is time for it..you just have to make the time. BUT you also need to be clear about how much time is already taken in the beginning.
Good Luck and I hope you figure it out!!

My question to you is..do you really want to do this? OR are you doing this for your boyfriend? IF your boyfriend was gay, he would be making moves towards the other guy by now, he wouldn't be able to hold back from at least touching him.
I think this could back fire on you. What is going to happen when you get into a big fight and he throws this up to you? Even if it was his idea to do it, he will use it against you.
I know I could never do it nor would I do it just to please my boyfriend. I think you need to sit down with him and have a long talk. Ask him if he is a bi, I don't think he is gay because he is with you. But then again, I have known gay men that have been married just to hide the fact that they are gay.
I am sorry but to me he is disrespecting you by having you sleep with other men with him. UNLESS you like it and don't feel guilty about it?? IF you are not happy doing it, DON'T do it. I just don't see how anyone could do that then have respect for themselves in the morning...but that is just me!!!

Hey and welcome to Mingle.
It would help you if you went in and answer the questions on your profile.
No one is going to know what you are looking for because all you said is HI.
Good luck!!