Can someome check out my profile, it my be too open.

I think its romantic However, I agree its more fun for the coupl to go try on, then buy. After that dinner, some drinks. Let the excitment linger.

A place to chill and say hi. Dont forget pop your favorite cd

Im listening to Bring It On. Does anyone listen to Bollywood

I want to say thank you to everyone. I am going focus, making me and my kids happy, and getting out to do hings Ihave not done in a long time. I was so worried i neglected myself and forgot, how can I help him if i resent him. Just because he is depressed and uninterested in our family. Im mommy and i need to get out the house and do things,by myself and my babies.
ALL OF YOU HELPED ME TO REALIZE, YES, HE HAS A PROBLEM, BUT ITS NOT FOR ME TO ENABLE HIM. Im not going to pack and leave. however, the kids and i are not going to sit around the house anymore. maybe if he sees we r moving on he will start to snap out of it.
By the way he told me he will stare to wein off meds wish my family luck.

just to clarify 2 dui and since feb 08 held a job in shipping, not what he desired. depression started nov 07, new job 2/08. financialy we are stable paycheck 2 pay check.
Yes this is a dating site, also called mingle. on my profile im clear i am trying to reenter social scene. creat my own circle, I figure getting out once in a while will fill my gap, 2 miserable peopl cant help each other.

yes he drinks

parents deceased no family only in laws and my kids and him. im a medical assistant the most i can possibly make is 14 per hr. im just going to wai it out till my 3 yr old in 1st grade

he lost his CDL licence to DUI & he slipped into depression sleeping day & night. I was soul provider, he hated that., I tried everything to help him understand he's sill my man. I think in a way he resented me. I also had 3 kids 2,5,8 at the x, only so much i can do, also all housework and laundry, taking kids to 2 different daycare, the car broke down, and all this with full leg brace

dont get me wrong i have a guy im trying to get him interested again

Wouldnt that be lovely

Thats positive
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Mine is to spend the year loving myself a littlng more. Takinh 1 hr a day for me, and 1 night every 2 weeks. 2008 I neglected to do that and I got burned out. My family always comes 1st. I decided this when I realized, I wore athletic clothes everyday the funny thing is I stoped working out. I am attractive and i let it all go. TIME FOR ME TO GET THAT BACK!!

he is distant and sometimes mean to the kids, i sometimet have too intervien.
I took your advice, for new years eve we went to his friends party. Mostly couples and his friends family. Iwatched him play pool for about 3 hors, from the x we got there 9 pm till 3 min b4 countdown. After the countdown, his friends requested all couples to dance he refused me.I cant keep being shot down. 2 top it off my 3 year old girl wet herself, he scolded her in front of everyone. If it was me i can deal, but hes rubbing off on my 6 year old boy. really i dont too much care about sex, but cuddling, spending x together etc. I miss it, i cant talk to my friend (him). We were great friends to, we were adventurous. We tackled problems, not fight about them. Imiss him.

my dear that was awsome advice, I that way, but i also felt stressed. i havent really talked with him in 2 months im gonna make a nice night forhim maybe he'll be suprised and want to open up.

thank you all.

im feeling the effects, he stuck by me when i developed a thyroid disorder he stopped eating meat for my health, i dont know

what would you do 7 beautiful years, 1 bad, last year it started with sleeping day and night , then meds then distance do you guys/gals think its too soon.

ive helped him as much as i can, it seems helpless, i have 3 young ones who also need me, i dont want to abandon him, looks like i have no choice