for me it was when I came out of the shower one day, and the 11 yr old neighbor girl walked in the bathroom to talk to me as I was standing there drying off. she wasted no time getting an eyeful. it wasn't really too bad cause she is sleeping with my 13 yr old son, but I was off guard for not expecting her to be there.

try this gem: some years ago, carl sagan aimed the space telescope to that point in space where the earth was 50 million yrs ago, and wherein it took 50 million yrs for the light image to travel to where the earth was at the then current time, and he filmed the Cambrian explosion. the white house at the time had to impound the film because you cant offend the beliefs of the religious crowd with all of the stuff and nonsense that they choose to believe. now that sagan is dead, his foundation is aiming the telescope in space to attempt to trace the trajectory of the incoming, so we might see its source, and perhaps identify if there where other outgoings from there, to see where we may have cousins. the point of the moment is that if the light image traveled the speed of light for 50 million yrs to get here for us to film, that means that we exceeded the speed of light to be here to receive the image when it arrived. that sounds suspiciously like time travel to me.

I have long shared the same belief, however the latest info seems to be that the principles of hyperbolics are finding fault with relativity. not to knock the whole thing, just portions thereof.

I cannot conceive of the concept of whether or not its necessary. I am 75 yrs old and enjoy sex every day and sometimes more often. you make it sound like a job or a duty or something stressful to avoid. I look forward to it and I cannot comprehend anyone not looking forward o it. excuse me, I should allow for those few people who look in the mirror at a given time and tell themselves its all over. I guess for them it is.

I agree, but sometimes it sure does just embarrass terribly. I kinda wish there was someone to exchange info with to try to learn how to deal with things better.

does anyone have "touchy" situations involving kids that you kinda wish never happened or that you were very embarrassed about? I do, but hesitate to post until I determine that anybody else is even going to respond.

thank you for the attention to the subject.

this is not necessarily a bug, but it is a possible negative comment. a couple of days ago, the site was down for a short while. then when it came back up, there was a tremendous increase in the amount of potential matches to choose from. now after a few days of observing it, I notice that all the additional choices are people who essentially are not using the site anymore. they all indicate "last seen over a month ago" they are not active. so we are wasting our time selecting people who are not available anymore. I also notice that most of them are not the greatest lookers in the world either. I suspect that somebody decided to pull all the dead wood out of the closet to give the impression of higher activity and increased likelihoods, when in fact it is not true. it makes me feel that I am largely wasting my time with dead issues. it certainly does no good to try to meet or match someone who has moved on and no longer uses the site. makes me think it was better the other way.

if we both like each other, of course. this is not the dark ages where you go around mumbling about religion and imaginary rules of conduct. you get horny and you are with someone you like, go for it.

about 2 weeks ago I contacted the website to inquire if the stick and repeat characteristic of rating people would ever be fixed. I got a reply saying yes it will be fixed shortly. now 2 weeks have gone by with no fix. I therefor conclude that it will not be fxed and that using the rating people function is too frustrating to be bothered with. therefore I shall only use the search thing and ignore the rating thing as a permanent defect.

looking for matches, I start to rate people, but after 4 or 5 people, it stops showing me anyone except the same last person over and over and nobody else. will you ever fix this or is it simply a defective site?