Well, I believe you should tell her to try to keep it friendly or you'll boot her out.

No use getting more friendly and be tagged as homewrecker

Well, I don't think I fit your category.

First, I'm a single mom. With your hesitations I don't think it will work.

Next, I'm older. Which is also one of your hesitations.

Lastly, I'm currently in a relationship.

So, that gives you three reasons not to even look my way :)

Hi!!! Congrats. Every accomplishments starts with the decision to try. Well done!

Need help on what, exactly?

Yes, thinking that: If I'm doing it (getting it on with other people), then maybe they are doing it as well. Right?


I don't get jealous. As I trust my boyfriend :D

No. Unless she is currently married and has kids. But if she's single, divorced, separated or annulled then it's okay :)

What's so bad about it? I mean, if your intentions are really platonic then go. She might be just looking for friends as well. Single moms or moms in general sometimes needs to have wide variety of friends as well. Not just those they could find on their kids Parent-Teacher Association or in play schools.

You don't have to think too much about it or stress if this is a bad thing or not.

If your intention is just cool, clean fun and will treat her with respect. Then yes, go for it.

Who knows ..? she may even be the one you're looking for.

Hi, how come dating again? When was the last time if I may ask? :)

Yes, you have to get to know the person really, really well before you give yourself to him. Because there are things that you can easily give away but never get them back.

Good luck and I hope you find a great guy :)

As my boyfriend tells me, Beauty is only skin deep. So, I think your outward appearance doesn't have to do with which kind of guys you attract.

And lousy guys are everywhere, if they get the best of you depends on whether you entertain them or not.

Now, your question of Why does no one can love you depends on how you let others see you and how you let others treat you.

When you meet a guy let him know through your actions that you're not a booty call and that you'll never be his Girl Friday or just his "Flavor of the Month." If a guy senses that you're in this for a long haul and you're really looking for a decent relationship complete with bows, flowers and hearts then it's for him to decide if he'll pursue you or not. If he runs to the other direction, meaning he's definitely not a keeper. Lose him and move on

Long distance relationships have its positive sides, the way I see it. For one, Communication becomes sacred. You’ll value any and all messages from your partner infinitely more. And, thankfully, you’ll be so eager to catch up that you won’t bother with awkward small talk.

If things go well, distance helps trust grow exponentially. Being separate means you can master being independent and in a relationship. And you never have to feel guilty about taking “me time."

Not to mention now you actually have an excuse to do any touristy things you want, although you might be a tad distracted. Travel! Adventures are great, especially when the person you love is your destination.

And you have an excuse to unleash your inner romantic: Handwritten letters and postcards are the best.

You know, though, that you always have something to look forward to. And that moment when you first see each other again — priceless.

Finally, if your long-distance relationship is successful, you can rest assured that your relationship is pretty golden.

I'm still reading the books :) I don't want to start watching without finishing the books :P

1. Sweet Home Alabama
2. White Chicks
3. Uptown Girls
4. 13 Going 30

CSI Vegas
CSI Miami
West Wing
Boston Public
Prison Break

Of course *wink*

The best way to discipline your kid is to tell it to them straight. What are the things that are allowed and what are the things that are not allowed. Whether it be food, or material things or permission to play with a neighbor's kid.

But you also have to arm yourself with an iron-tight reason why this decision was made. No negotiations requires no loopholes, Mommy.

Good luck and always let them understand that You love them no matter how angry they just made you :)

BTW, I'm a single mom of 2 kids as well. Best of luck

I agree that there are those guys who thinks you're an easy lay just because you're not a "shiny, new toy" they can play with.

But there are still guys out there who will treat you with respect as long as they see that you treat yourself with respect as well.

If you happen to find a guy here who wants you as well but tends to be a jerk along the way, move on and forget about him. You don't need to settle with a guy who cannot respect you as his Queen.

Don't worry I found a great guy here. Currently in a relationship with him :)

Just be patient and not settle for whoever comes close to what you are looking for but stay specific on your goal.

If someone feigns interest in you tell them staright what are your negotiables (are you willing to be in a long distance relationship?, etc.) and non-negotiables (well, he has to meet Mummy one time or another, right?) :) Good luck!