It takes a lot of patience to weed through the bad apples. But, once we do, it will be well worth it. Just keep respecting yourself and stand up for what you believe in! Remember that some men who just want that may have had bad experiences in relationships. They don't realize that a relationship can be a good thing with good times. At least that's what it's supposed to be. Sure there are a few bad bumps in the road of life that we come across, but, if we're in a good relationship(Friendship from the get-go) we get through the bumps together. My main problem on here is honesty, too. If they'd just be honest about everything, from the start, then maybe their time and ours wouldn't be wasted on thinking something that really isn't. Keep the faith! The honest one will cross your path. Keep that little one your main priority and yourself. They say "All good things come to those who wait". It just takes PATIENCE!