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Mon 05/12/25 11:43 PM
if a woman throws her mans belongings out 20 times then by the 21 time threatened to call the police he refused to go because he pays rent then receives a rent telling him to leave is that a red fkag should he stay he pays half the rent

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Mon 05/12/25 11:36 PM
None one is perfect. We are all flawed.
There is no perfect relationship. They are hard work and continually need attention.

So in the beginning of a relationship, if a red flag appears we need to speak up and address the issue. But if it keeps happening, that is a different situation.

I've dated a woman 4 times. I always take her to a nice restaurant and I pay for everything. On our last date, the waiter gave me the bill. It was $50.00. I gave him my credit card. I got up from the table to go to the restaurant. In the corner of my eye, I saw my date run to the waiter. I thought that was weird.

When I got back, the bill was paid but it was $70.00. I waved the waiter over to complain. But my date interrupted me and said she ordered a take-out meal for her landlord. I told her this wasn't right. She defiantly said, "Why Not!!?" I told her she shouldn't treat people this way, sneaking around.. She then interrupted me and said she would pay for it. I accepted her money.

My friend said this is a huge red flag and should end the relationship. But don't you think all relationships have red flags in the beginning?

if a woman throws a mans things out 20 times he refuse to leave saying l pay rent then by the 21st time threatened to call police and he leaves should he forgive her or is it a red flag or too much of a red flag