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Sat 12/27/08 10:21 AM
I appreciate it, I just hate to be confused and like to talk things out. It helps me to think better and more clearly

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Sat 12/27/08 10:17 AM

Why do women over analyze everything. Why dont you ask instead of assume whats going on. He could not have a txt plan. He could not get great cell service at his house, and he also could not carry around his phone 24 /7. Why do people get in the mindset that they like me if they do everything I want them to do without telling them anything? People dont have ESP... The key to any good relationship is communicating not trying to figure stuff out...


You people certainly get vicious lol

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Sat 12/27/08 10:03 AM
I know that, but he is soo cute and really sweet. I hate dating lol its been such a long time since i had to put my self out there like this

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Sat 12/27/08 10:02 AM
Trust me I'm not a slut lol I know guys will all say things you want to hear

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Sat 12/27/08 10:01 AM


first of all being an older man I will say this... no he is not or he is to childish to realize.... your a beautiful woman so why the aloofness from him... be careful very very careful.smokin


I agree its that or he just wants one thing so he talks to her just enugh to get what it is that he wants


but then the question is all we do is txt or IM so i'm not sleeping with him so there is no incentive to string me along

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Sat 12/27/08 09:59 AM

flowerforyou I say if ya have to ask then probaly notflowerforyou


But then why would he say that he thinks we could be good together and he always calls me babe you know.

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Sat 12/27/08 09:56 AM
Well, if u had a better pic maybe my opinion would be better educated

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Sat 12/27/08 09:53 AM
I started talking to this guy. Now he never txts me I always txt him then he never answers back right away if he answers at all. But during a convo we had last night he told me that he thinks we will be really good together and that I'm beautiful. So I'm REALLY REALLY confused! I need some advice is he in to me or not?

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Mon 12/22/08 05:32 PM

bigsmile divorced him


AHHHHHHHH SNAP! U Rule GIRLFRIEND!

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Mon 12/22/08 10:57 AM

Don't have sex before the first date.


Amen to that Sista!

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Sun 12/21/08 03:42 PM
Yeah girls do pick up the "Gold Digger" title all the time. But I mean seriously look at Kevin Federline all his woman have been meal tickets. Listen kid, Don't rush things you will find the person you are meant to be with, maybe God means for you to get on your own feet before he sends her your way.

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Sun 12/21/08 03:38 PM
Cupid Works For The Devil

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Sun 12/21/08 03:25 PM



I am asking for honest opinions of girls who are actually in this age group.

Guys with sarcastic remarks - please refrain and have some maturity =)

Ok so my question is this. What do girls (GENERALLY) in the age group 18-22 really look for in a guy? It seems if they aren't about looks, they are about money, or vise versa. Never personality.

I ask this because I'd like to think I am a genuinely nice guy and I'm prolly average in looks. I dont have money, and im not where I want to be in life (living at home still -_-) and also no license (long story half of the reasons were beyond my control) and have some serious trouble finding ppl interested in me.

What happened to girls wanting a nice guy who will treat them right? Or am I just looking in all the way wrong places?

Call me pathetic if you wish, but I am putting myself out here hoping for some honest opinions of this matter. Constructive criticism I do not mind, but insults...please refrain from.


Live Right Now Just Be Yourself I Doesn't Matter If Its Good Enough For Someone Else: Jimmy Eats World

Who cares what a girls wants is a guy to be himself and treat her with respect.


I do care what girls want because the one thing I want out of life is love and I sure as hell can't have that alone now can I? lol. But yeah I WISH all girls had your mind set about respect and such, I wouldn't have an issue then -_-


Hey Money doesnt matter to me I make my own, u live with your mom so what as long as you have ambitions to get out of there you know.

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Sun 12/21/08 03:10 PM

I am asking for honest opinions of girls who are actually in this age group.

Guys with sarcastic remarks - please refrain and have some maturity =)

Ok so my question is this. What do girls (GENERALLY) in the age group 18-22 really look for in a guy? It seems if they aren't about looks, they are about money, or vise versa. Never personality.

I ask this because I'd like to think I am a genuinely nice guy and I'm prolly average in looks. I dont have money, and im not where I want to be in life (living at home still -_-) and also no license (long story half of the reasons were beyond my control) and have some serious trouble finding ppl interested in me.

What happened to girls wanting a nice guy who will treat them right? Or am I just looking in all the way wrong places?

Call me pathetic if you wish, but I am putting myself out here hoping for some honest opinions of this matter. Constructive criticism I do not mind, but insults...please refrain from.


Live Right Now Just Be Yourself I Doesn't Matter If Its Good Enough For Someone Else: Jimmy Eats World

Who cares what a girls wants is a guy to be himself and treat her with respect.

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Sun 12/21/08 01:58 PM
I think your pictures are very nice and your section about you seems very well written and articulate you sound like an upstanding gentleman

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Sun 12/21/08 12:35 PM
Well I met someone and he turned out to be a big skank lol but awhile back a couple posted a thing on the message board about how thankful they were for this site and how they finally found their true loves?

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Sun 12/21/08 08:27 AM

that was really mean makin him pass up on 24 cans of beer for 10.00.!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh


I agree I would have bought the beer lol

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Sun 12/21/08 08:06 AM
After I had my son I had Post Partum Depression so bad that I had to be hospitalized for a time.

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Sun 12/14/08 01:50 PM
I know someone who worked for a company that had a contract with GM. The Union does NOTHING. He got fired for NO REASON while others who used racial slurs were brought right back to work. He paid the Union dues and was told again and again that the Union "was working on it". All the Union does is cost people jobs just look at the situation GM is about to go under and the Union REFUSES to even negotiate even after the CEOs agreed to take a pay cut as well. The president of the company said he would work for ONE FRIGGIN DOLLAR! But the UAW won't budge I hope the Government does some restructuring and gets rid of the Union the Union hasn't done any one any good for a long time. The Union at the plant in Indiana took the dues that the workers paid and bought computers with it and then told everyone that there would be no christmas party because there were no funds. Then the UAW was supposedly collecting cash for an injured worker. When the workers asked about how much cash they raised the answer was barely $20. My friend gave them $30 by himself. Now tell me where all that money went DOWN WITH THE UAW!!!! GREEDY PEOPLE.

Instead of a bailout for Wall Street that money should have gone to the people and that would have kick started the econonmy pretty good.

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Sun 12/14/08 11:01 AM
Face it the first time anyone meets someone else the VERY first thing they notice is looks. But as it has been stated Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I doubt a single person on here can't say looks aren't atleast a little bit important.