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Sun 12/28/08 01:51 PM
I'm just saying thats my rule because I don't want to feel stupid when he says oh yeah thats nice you know

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Sun 12/28/08 01:46 PM
Ooh honey the best rule is don't say it until he does

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Sun 12/28/08 12:04 PM
I LOVE Nachos!!!! Looks like u will have some company for New Years after all hehe

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Sun 12/28/08 10:26 AM








i was born and raised in a traditional mexican family and yes the eldest is responsible for taking care of the parents which my mom does as she's the eldest. but even in any hispanic culture to live with mom/dad for so long that you're roots are as thick as the family tree.. then its just overboard. i mean independance can make a difference. but then thats just my opinion. regardless of culture.

yeah i get what you are saying. but if someone has to do what they have to do to survive.. then by god do it. it beats homelessness... it beats the other crap that can come along. ya know?

and yeah... basement troll. i'm stealin that. lol yeah he was just creepy. funny.. i met him on POF>


Oh I'm On POF and have a date with someone from there tonight great now I'm going to have to ask the hard questions lol


LOL yeah seriously. POF is a trip. i can tell you dating horror stories that would make your hair curl. lol


Seriously...Crap


lol don't stress.


I guess I shoulda known the guy i'm going out with has kinda been stringing me along I think lol men huh who needs em lol

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Sun 12/28/08 10:20 AM






i was born and raised in a traditional mexican family and yes the eldest is responsible for taking care of the parents which my mom does as she's the eldest. but even in any hispanic culture to live with mom/dad for so long that you're roots are as thick as the family tree.. then its just overboard. i mean independance can make a difference. but then thats just my opinion. regardless of culture.

yeah i get what you are saying. but if someone has to do what they have to do to survive.. then by god do it. it beats homelessness... it beats the other crap that can come along. ya know?

and yeah... basement troll. i'm stealin that. lol yeah he was just creepy. funny.. i met him on POF>


Oh I'm On POF and have a date with someone from there tonight great now I'm going to have to ask the hard questions lol


LOL yeah seriously. POF is a trip. i can tell you dating horror stories that would make your hair curl. lol


Seriously...Crap

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Sun 12/28/08 10:14 AM




i was born and raised in a traditional mexican family and yes the eldest is responsible for taking care of the parents which my mom does as she's the eldest. but even in any hispanic culture to live with mom/dad for so long that you're roots are as thick as the family tree.. then its just overboard. i mean independance can make a difference. but then thats just my opinion. regardless of culture.

yeah i get what you are saying. but if someone has to do what they have to do to survive.. then by god do it. it beats homelessness... it beats the other crap that can come along. ya know?

and yeah... basement troll. i'm stealin that. lol yeah he was just creepy. funny.. i met him on POF>


Oh I'm On POF and have a date with someone from there tonight great now I'm going to have to ask the hard questions lol

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Sun 12/28/08 10:11 AM

That's a long time! I am so lucky to live an hour from the beach. I also love to go there at night. It is so beautiful when it's completely empty. It's almost spooky near the waves in the dark.


Sounds like it would be amazing again Jealous

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Sun 12/28/08 10:05 AM



I moved out of my moms as soon as I graduated high school in 93. Been on my own since. I had a steady job for ten years and purchased a brand new custom built house. I lived in the house for about three years, and hard times took their toll. I ended up selling the house and moving in with my moms, to get back on my feet.

Does this make me a loser?


Were u smoking pot in her basement working part time at a book store?


Haha. She doesnt have a basement.

laugh


See lol then that doesn't make u a loser your a loser if u mooch off of her.

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Sun 12/28/08 09:58 AM

I moved out of my moms as soon as I graduated high school in 93. Been on my own since. I had a steady job for ten years and purchased a brand new custom built house. I lived in the house for about three years, and hard times took their toll. I ended up selling the house and moving in with my moms, to get back on my feet.

Does this make me a loser?


Were u smoking pot in her basement working part time at a book store?

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Sun 12/28/08 09:57 AM
Seriously lol I would LOVE to lounge by the beach I haven't seen the ocean since I moved out of Cali when I was 4. I lived in Los Osos Bay

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Sun 12/28/08 09:56 AM


My Mom & I were roomies a couple of times...she even spent her last days living with me...& for the most part, it was great! She only insisted that I call her by her first name while out in public...she was smokin' HOT & didn't want the young studs knowing she had a kid as old as me! tongue2


LOL see thats just cute. but i wonder if its more socially acceptable for a girl than a guy. ya know? just curious how that thought came to me.

but your mom sounded wonderful ;p

oh and graham .. no no second date. good god no.


Good for you! Right now I'm the bread winner for my family its hard but I could not imagine going back to my rents I love having my own place.

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Sun 12/28/08 09:54 AM
<--TOTALLY JEALOUSgrumble lol

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Sun 12/28/08 09:52 AM
Well I guess living in Cali certainly makes it easier to maintain huh lol

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Sun 12/28/08 09:49 AM
Moving in with Momma isn't shameful but mooching off her to smoke pot and work part time at a book store is pretty crappy I hope that loser didn't get a second date!

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Sun 12/28/08 09:48 AM
I think it is really good but the picture of u in the white shirt would look alot better you can see more of your face and the lighting is great and NICE TAN by the way I'm jealous lol

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Sun 12/28/08 08:06 AM
I was in like preschool I can't remember his name but he was really sweet we would hold hands on the bus lol

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Sat 12/27/08 11:37 AM
So I'm ready to go out and date again after the break up of my marriage but I'm not sure how to go about it any advice?

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Sat 12/27/08 11:36 AM

okay.... then why would u worry about getting played by him if you didnt care? cause if you didnt care then there would not be a chance at him playing you. perhaps you use different words than i do... attached, care , interested, curious, attracted to, spun,have the hots for, like.......



I think he is cute and thats about it. This is my first time in the dating pool in about 3 years so its alittle scary

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Sat 12/27/08 10:58 AM

i dont get why everyone is assuming that something negetive is going on.... trust until you know for sure that there isnt reason to trust.. overall in most cases men are just slower at getting attached than women..... and a lot of men will run if so much is expected right away...



I don't like to assume so I'm trying not to assume something bad is going on. I'm not "attached" to this guy. I just don't want to get played that is all. I just wanted to know others opinions thats it. Like I said I'm not attached I don't care that he doesn't txt I just care that he is saying things like "we would be good together" but then can't keep up a convo. That is all NOT ATTACHED DO NOT CARE I JUST DON"T WANT TO GET PLAYED end of story!

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Sat 12/27/08 10:32 AM
It does bother me when people don't answer my txt. I'm not gah gah over him I just can't decide whether he is a liar or what