ya know, the old premise of waiting till marriage was first devised to allow both people to make sure their relationship was not based upon only sexual pleasures, because you can really like someone in bed, but be annoyed and nearly hate how they use their brain in daily life matters...

but the old laws of "morality" shielded the actual reasons for beliefs passed down, since over time, all those that adopted such "rules" of abstinence, were just people who most wanted to be recognized in their communities as "good people", to fit in, and be accpeted as "good", and so never actually knew the founding reasons the "rules" made up originally...

but the people who made up the "rules", were not actually the "good people" they liked to think of them self as, or they would have never espoused a "one size fits all rule", as the only people who do that are superior self righteous people who love to think of them self as such, so self superior, they actually make rules for the rest of the world based upon their own personal self and experience.

of course, because they were "self worshipers", they forgot, each person is unique, and so then is each occurrence that each create.