Very scary to know that if they are jailed for stalking you they can still stalk you online from their cell. It happened to a friend of mine. It was a fight too because it was his right to be online and have a computer. What a load of crap. You are in jail what rights should you have. a roof over your head, food access to bathroom facilities clothing a bed. maybe outdoor time if earned. and that's it.

I have a cousin in the Military who just retired and did some investigating for me. There are a lot of men on here that say they are Us citizen deployed over seas and need to get home but don't have access, and need you to pay for them to come home, which is like $6000. This is a scam Ask questions the any US military personnel will know that that is not a possibility unless there is an emergency in their immediate family, then it doesn't cost them anything, and they have to return other wise it is a crime. If the person tells you that they have been deployed for like 2 years it is a load of crap. The longest our troops are being deployed is 9 months to 1 year. since we are really not at "war" we are just on a peace keeping mission. If the are over seas longer then they have been stationed at a base of their choice and that would be like Japan, Turkey those are permanent bases not the temporary ones in like Kuwait, Saudi, Afghanistan, Iraq. Ect... There are also other Nationals that are trying to get into the states through scams Nigerians are others that are scamming women. Stating they are Us citizens and received and inheritance so they had to go to Africa and the inheritance is from Gold mining and is in the form of solid gold so they need help getting it transferred into actual Us currency and then they need you to pay for them to get to the states with the promise of millions and such. Their are others out there too. You can usually tell by how the word things in their chats or emails whether they are us citizens or not. Please if any of you Gals have any questions about guys you are chatting with you can email me I would be happy to get you the information you need to verify whether or not the person is real or not. My cousin can look into all of these and get you the information. I would be happy to help. No one should be used.

Boy defiant turn offs
some one who can not show affection
some one who can't communicate
some one who is not willing to do anything I want to do or try new things.
no respect.

Turn ons
honesty
respect for me and my kids
affection
romance
his eyes
smile
oh I am a sucker for lower abs.
if he can make me laugh.

Ok I have a list. it goes on and on.