How long have they been divorced? WOW,,, sounds like there are still feelings invloved. Taking the kids along on his dates is wrong, wrong, wrong.

The visitation arrangement should have been taken care of when the seperation was final. Usually it is just a starting point (minimum visitation rights) for the non-custidial parent.

My ex would let me have my daughter whenever i wanted her. I drove 60 miles 1 way almost every weekend for about 6 years. She finally moved in with me when she was 14 so it worked out for the better.

Any time that he spends with them is better then not seeing them at all.

yes, sorry to say, working 3rd shift and just checking my emails.

you have succedded in failing, so you have failed

that sounds like a weiner. I will do that and maybe feel a little better.

If i lived closer i would join you.

wow, nice going. I agree with you.

I recently got hosed at work, as did everyone who is employed here and for our company worldwide. Hope everyone can hang on because times are gonna get rough. I kept thinking **Merry Christmas** as i was reading the email they sent out hosing us. I could vent worse (really) but i have always felt if you are not part of the solution then you are part of the problem.

i don't care who you are, that's funny.

I am very new here, but it is a pleasure to meet you.

i hope i make new friends here. Haven't been a part of anything like this before so i am not sure what to do. If anyone wants to chat then please feel free to do so.