men have learnt that most women can't handle the truth or simply don't wannna hear it, they want a man's response to be what they are feeling and not what the man is feeling, it goes both ways, but understand men have hearts as well, we don't like to see you cry or get hurt because it hurts us, so when a person is avoiding you whether it be man or women it usually means their not interested, cause they've learnt their lesson that when you say whats on your mind the end result isn't always pretty. I think people in general are hard to figure out it takes a lil while to know one's personality and how to deal with it, not really a man or women issue. Hope this gibberish helped a little, if not I apologize.
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