First off, I do not know if I am posting in the correct forum, please forgive me if it should have been posted somewhere else.

Also, I am probably going to rant, this poker hand has been dealt to me about a week and a half to two weeks ago, and I still do not know how to handle it.

With all my disclaimers, lets start off at the beginning...

I FINALLY met someone after a long period of time of being single. We were rarley able to see each other with work schedules and such, but things were awesome. Of course we both had our own issues, but we were both also very willing to work things out between the two of us and make a compromization.

Problem is that out of the blue, one of my very close friends came and told me this...

"This is nothing against you, but my friends do not date my neighbors. I do not care if you are in a relationship with her or not, but it is now over. You are no longer allowed to see her unsupervised and you are no longer allowed to go over to her house without my knowing you are heading over there."

Now please, do not get this wrong, usually I would have easily told him to get over himself, but with my career and schooling (both are tied together, if I miss two days of school I lose my career) He is my ride to and from work, to and from school while I save up for a car.

My dilemma is simple, I promised both parties that I will not cause drama amongst the friends and such.

If I persue something between me and her, a longtime friendship will go down the drain, and I lose my career simply by pissing him off and not being able to get to and from work and school. On the other hand, well, do I really need to explain?

I did try speaking to him about this subject and tried to explain the topic from my end, and let me put it this way, he and I are not speaking for a few days while he cools down. Appearently it is completley unfair for me to try to voice my opinion when he laid down rules on my social life.

Also, before anyone asks, no, to my knowlege he is not trying to get with her, he is in a long term relationship with a woman who goes to the same church as he does.

Is there any advice I can get from people or am I just up the creek without a paddle?

EDIT: Cleaning up grammar and spelling erros.

Yes he is,,,and because of that,,I just wanted him to realize UP-FRONT that THIS SITE was not filled with great educated degreed members, so as so IF???
That was his search for finding on the Net,,,he might want to
know what we are all about on here instead of finding us all very boring as some people dis-like stupidity in others..

So does that address that better now,wink..
Its all good as its all truthful and said with smiles and actions still of friendship to be here...
I am sorry if you read me harsh,,,,

AS I am sure,,he didn't,wink..

It's been 3 days since the last time, and my neighbor is complaining AGAIN!! I have a seperate ventilation system, I pay the bill for, how the He** can my smoke be going into her vents???

EDU-MA-CATED-








I AM SORRY,,,,I just thought I'd let you know,,,
Education is ONLY brain DEEP....

Many WELL EDUCATED SCHOLARS,,,,Don't know or have any real communications skills, as PEOPLE.....

So if ya want edu-ma-cated folks,,we have them,,but we have many
more who flunked blocks in school,,yet have the BEST personalities on here,wink..



Welcome here, and please have fun meeting strangers,,and learning to have them call YOU,,a friend..

plus its good for your nails & your hair.love my green tea.

Thanx!! I went from beer to coffee!! Now I'm wired all the time on caffeine!!

Wishing Everyone A Happy Holiday,May God Bless you an your Family!

Love is free...you can't put a pricetag on love. Some attempt to buy love, some buy sex..love, real love does not have a cost.