It is interesting that men and women have such different attitudes to seeking sex . Men (in many cases) will pat another man on the back , bump chests , do a high five , in other words stroke the male ego when it comes to sexual encounters. Not common for a woman to do this when it comes to sexual prowess . Luca pointed out that women are more likely to shame other women for their sexual behaviour/choices and I have to agree . Female sexual freedom is still heavily influenced by social conditioning including peer pressure . The blame of sexual shaming does not lie completely with men