You know, I guess it just really depends on your expectations and requirements of a decent guy. Not all women are attracted to the same qualities that a guy may have true? But, I can tell you this from my perspective as a guy, qualities that I think I would consider to be a good guy. I believe that a good guy is determined not, by the things he says but by the things he does for his wife and family. It is very easy to tell someone what your intentions are, However, actually carrying out those intentions are the most important, otherwise they are just good intentions and talk true? I also consider a good man to be honest (again true to his word) and caring. I consider a caring individual to take notice of their woman's or family's needs and try to find a suitable compromise. Not every thing in life should go his way for he would be selfish to think it should (however, the same is true for women which has been a problem for myself and most other men I know. The women in our lives tend to be all about their feelings, wants, and needs then wonder why their man closes up and quits expressing his wants and needs and feelings which is pretty ironic true?). The last and most important is that he should be emotionally healthy and stable as he can be to have a serious relationship with anyone even friends. That means, he should absolutely be as faithful, loving, and caring as his wife and family are of him. To be otherwise would be contrary to any or all of the above qualities I just mentioned. Let's face it, if you can't be faithful and dedicated to your friends or loved ones, you are just speaking lies or good intentions that you never put into practice. These statements are also true for women out there. I have personally been cheated on by all of my girlfriends and lovers in the past. And, unfortunately, I meet the requirements above and more which makes me tend to believe I just wanted too much from my women (which were thee same qualities they asked of me as stated above). So, now I must ask my question. Why do women always seem to ask for and want what they seem to not be willing to give in return or compromise on? I do not intend to offend any one here but just thought these things should be pointed out. And if anyone disagrees with my input and have facts to back up their statements or replies, I will graciously accept that I was an idiot and foolishly said something that was untrue or biased and admit defeat.
Signed,
one good man