You need to be honest with her, for a lot of reasons. First, you are a model for her, so honesty is not only the best way of communicating, it's also what we teach (or don't teach) our children. Tell her that you and her daddy both love her, and always will... but for now, daddy has to find a job and a place to stay, and then he will be back. Help her focus on what is going on with her life now, not on when her dad may be back. Keep her busy with crafts, play, and books, and make her life rich in other ways! I agree with the person above, kids are very resilient and forgiving, if we treat them with honesty and respect. Good luck... it will all work out. And... hold your ground! It's in everybody's best interest, even his!

Welcome! I think you'll like it here!

I think it's a very tough question to answer, because it feels like we are dismissing them as people, and that's not right. We are judging them poorly as human beings based on what they do for a living. They are certainly deserving of love and respect and compassion as is any person! I know... the question is whether I could love someone who works in the porn industry. I'd say the chances are slim, but I can't honestly rule it out since love happens sometimes when we least expect it!

Happy to join in, here...

I'm placing an order for sex, (hold the onions!), large pepsi, and 2 egg rolls!

Is this line of conversation going somewhere, or is this just a hilarious dead end?

Hi Kimberly,
You just joined and already you have to block someone? I'm sorry to hear that! I think you have to remove (delete) that person from your mutual match list. Then you should be able to block them from any further communication. Good luck, and I hope you find better matches!

~Jim

Yes, most of us have been there. We tolerate it so as not to rock the boat, or whatever. It's not healthy sometimes, what we do for love. Be strong and true to yourself! Oh, and Happy Thanksgiving!!

Isn't Joni the bomb?? :o)

Yep, just search and find someone that tickles your fancy. It's a nice community here! Good luck!