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I'm in the field....I work in adult mental health.

My mom didn't even know I existed until my twin sister was born! ;)

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I'm in Racine!

Any question can be answered. Sometimes a simple, "I don't know" is all that needs to be said. And if a man doesn't want to answer a question, what does that imply to the average woman?

Women are compared to each other just as much as men are.

Jtree43, I understand what you're saying, but equal communication is not difficult when it's done openly and honestly.

..and so is honesty!

Yeah, possibly so, but I get asked the same type of questions as well.

What's considered a difficult question?

Maybe they shouldn't tell someone they feel a certain way either when they truly don't? Besides, what makes you think the time hasn't been taken? One only knows what they're told.

It's hard not to generalize.

So, why is that men don't have the ability to properly communicate their feelings? Why is it easier for them to completely lead someone on instead of being upfront about everything, especially when that is all that has been asked of them? Why is it easier for them to tell a woman what they think "she wants to hear" instead of being honest? I don't understand why men like that are members of dating websites. All of us have a hard enough time finding a special person that is honest and genuine, so why must they make it all that more difficult? Please enlighten me!