Hello?

I wasn't talking to myself. Are you okay?

I'd date you, despite my desire for men.

Well, I'm off to play some games :) I'm glad I had to time to talk to you, and I appreciate your comments. I don't believe in pushing anything on people, and I wish other "gay, homesexual, etc" people would agree. You get better results with honey than with vinegar. People that feel forced will rebel.

Sorry, long-winded again.

And for the record, I have met people that I would consider "homosexual", but if they don't say they are, I will not support pushing it on them. I have seen a few of them "come out", but have seen even more raise kids and have wonderful families. I don't see why it's necessary for people to force people "to come out", in the name of freedom. If it's freedom, they would be allowed to do their own thing at their own pace. The world is full of different people, and groups have a tendency to hurt liberty for selfish reasons in the name of "freeing people".

Heh, I have a philosophy. I thought about "coming out" to family and friends, but then decided not to, because I do not consider myself "gay" according to what is being pushed. I am attracted to guys, but I am not "everything goes". I don't prescribe to the parades and such that think it's okay to have a main street smut show and such. I guess I'm just a regular guy that finds himself in a strange situation of being attracted to other guys.

Well, most people look at others and say "I wish I was as ....... as they are." I still consider those things at times, but seeing those I consider "blessed" struggle with things has let me know that nobody is living in paradise. It makes life more realistic and less stressful.

Yeah, just discovered this by mistake through a google search. Seems okay so far. As for you being full of yourself, I try not to hold that against anyone either. I had a friend once that was what I consider the perfect man, physically and intellectually. We talked about everything, but then over the years I noticed, he was just like everyone else, he had insecurities and faults. Guess what he worried the most about....dandruff. I swear it's true, but I never saw a flake. I guess those things are what keep everyone human.

I was just complimenting you. Sorry. It's only natural that the defense mechanisms come up, because some people can be very aggressive, but I am okay. I had read your profile and saw that you don't mind talking about stuff, so didn't figure talking would bother you. I am in no way offended, and hope anyone that is would lower their weapons

Heh, other than finding you attractive(passive), nothing more was intended or thoughout of, no worries. I can barely afford the gas to drive back and forth to work, Virginia is out of the budget

That's cool, that was a compliment by the way, I just get long winded sometimes and the point might get lost along the way.

Agreed, Peter is also my favorite. I also like Hiro though, he has the selfless virtue of what I would call a real hero. When he's on the show, he is so alive, and would be the kind of person I'd want at my side if I were faced with the task as a super hero trying to save the world.

Surfer dude, at first I was wondering why you would want to post yourself here to find a mate, but I guess today a cute face and hot bod doesn't mean you will find quality. It says something to those who think online dating and singles searches are just for those who are too frightening in appearance to leave their homes during the daylight hours :) Sometimes this is the forum to find your true match, since you can be honest and really talk without the pressure at the end of the date.

You're hot if that helps ;)