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You have actually seen that clip of a woman doing 100 men? Wow... Well I never.... 
yeahhhh, thats actually sumfin else mate. orgies aint intimate. Really? I think I might ask crystalfairy to pull out the video so I can watch it. Maybe with her so she can narrate all the way through... What do you think Crystalfairy.? 
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sex... how much is too much?
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Did you know that it's unhealthy for a man not to ejaculate for a long period?
Apparently it can lead to testicle cancer... I read it somewhere. Had anyone else heard that? Or is it just my imagination so I can have more "relations" 
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to much if it starts to hurt. . .theen u sgould chillax a day or two I don't think it is good to do it so much that it hurts. I also don't think its good to keep having sex like a junkie on free crack. Just nice comfortable engagement 3 - 4 times a week (including quickies lol) 
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Hi,,,
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Welcome.
Just try to have fun... 
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If he'd want 3 hr sessions including massages and god knows what every other day, I'd develop a chronic case of headaches. 3 hour sessions are reserved for birthdays anniversaries Christmas & or new years. And misswright your starting to frighten me with your sexual prowess. You over sexed minx... |
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Go to your profile click on edit and select the picture you want to delete and click delete.
While your in the photo section of your profile you click browse to find your new pictures, just like when you did to upload the picture you are deleting |
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First post: Is it wrong to want sex once a week? Later post by same guy: So twice a week is okay, right? Two sentences later: So then two to three times a week is a good average? 
I'm dying here! Sounds exactly like me when I'm in negotiations with my man about this exact subject! Okay, 3 works for ya. Can we go for 4 maybe? How 'bout three and a half then?! 
Too much varies with each individual. Sex drive can be either very high, in which case daily probably isn't too much, or very low, in which case you could probably use years as increments, or generally it falls somewhere in between. Too much FOR YOU depends on where in the scale YOUR sex drive falls. Too much for your partner might be a totally different ballpark. I do agree that it's better to find someone that is close to your range as negotiations can get tricky if the two are polar opposites. Not that I would know or anything...  
See in my marriage I though I was a pervert towards the end years so where I thought I was a high sex drive in fact it is probably very low compared to you misswright. 
So I guess im finding out here where I am on the sex scale. For me 2 - 3 ok maybe 4 times a week is ok if that includes the quickie when I saw you bending over picking up sometime you dropped on the floor. And also I am very happy that I amused you. At least I put a smile on someone's face... 
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I have been in relationships where the woman wanted sex everyday. Really? More than one? Have you still got their phone numbers? 
No seriously though as people have already mentioned before at the beginning its all hands on deck (each other) But when that initial excitement goes and one sides sex drive drops to near zero maybe after a year of having it on tap (meaning both wanting it) What is the guy supposed to do? And no D.I.Y. comments please... lol |
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...... Are we counting quickies too? 
Of course!! Quickies often are the best
Oh my days crystalfairy... You do make me chuckle. . In a nice way.. and it's nice to hear it from a woman as well... |
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Are we counting quickies too?
I dont see why not. Its like having a Mocha instead of your regular cappuccino. 
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In the early days of the relationship, its never too much. You never seem to get enough of each other coz of the excitement. but as time goes by, once or twice a week is ok. See!!! Now this is what im talking about... Once the honeymoon period is over once or twice a week is acceptable, right? I understand that some weeks may get missed due to whatever reason or maybe some weeks might go for a hat trick and get 3 sessions in. Whay hay! But 2 to 3 should be roughly an average? |
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Bit more picky these days, as when I was in my teens I would've shagged it if it had a pair of b**bs and moved! Changed days now though and it's quality now over quantity. Still like the quantity with the quality though! 
Yeah I was the same when I was younger. Ha ha. But you still haven't said what you would like quantity wise? How often would people like it? |
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it will be too much when it is against the will of the partner , while you both need to make love it won't be enough I would NEVER condone have sex against anyones will and it is completely wrong. |
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You have actually seen that clip of a woman doing 100 men?
Wow... Well I never....
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sex... how much is too much?
Edited by
GreekAdonis
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Thu 11/14/13 11:06 AM
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Ok this is a bit out there but im just curious as to what the response will be.
I am expecting some men that reply to say theres never too much. The question for those guys is how much you getting at the moment. Is once a week or once a month or couple months enough.? Is it wrong to want "relations" as I like to refer to it more than once a week? |
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I could be wrong, but to me it seems most of the people who have found a partner on here, met in the forums, and had mutually high post counts. Torgo70, you are probably right as i have not been here for long myself, but i was just saying this is how it could seem to new members. i could be wrong too. I cant believe that everyone on mingle interacts in forums do they? |
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an honest reply about the high counts some of you have.
When a new member joins and they see such high numbers on counts and people stating that they have been on here for years comes across that not much settleing down is going on or match making. Also going out on loads of dates and still not finding the right person doesnt give nem members much hope. This is only a first impression as a new member, i appreciate you like to mingle on the forums and chat and you have made great friends for life, however some and they do exist, come on a dating site as a last resort due to being lonely and could do with some actual company through maybe some bad times. Virtual chat is ok to a degree but finding a friend near by who you can call or meet up (after getting to know them first obviously) can help wonders. I know a lot of you will say "sort yourself out first" but i read earlier a single mum with 2 kids and she is now 16 weeks pregnant and she is on here looking for something. I really felt for her and contacted her, but as you can see not EVERYONE is over confident in themselves. That too can be unattractive to some. I am just saying.... so please dont bite my head off as it puts people off from expressing an opinion in the forums. |
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Had This For A Week Or So And No Msg's Hmm Wounder If This Site Works .. Hello, i too had the same problem, it seems you might need to be groomed by the Community forum nanny who will tell you whats wrong with your profile and give you 100 lines and detention if you dont change your ways!
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Tell the truth? It's a fire-breathing, rich madman, that's hung like a Horse, is what you really want?
Your more worried about the fire than walking bow legged for a week? What else can you see in your crystal ball crystal fairy? 
Dont sound too bad to me, although the fire breathing would concern me. I dont like fire Well, yeah, I'm really scared of fire. That's why to me it was a true victory to get my fire pit going in July, without anyone there to hold my hand if things would get out of hand and I'd start running around like a chicken without head. (that's why I proudly posted a piccy of it in my profile) In my crystal ball? Fairies don't have crystal balls, that's witches, haha. But let's find out what's there ..... What I really hope to find in a partner is that he's done his fair share of personal growth, emptied most of the closets, so no more hidden skeletons. Maybe the odd bone, but also willing to get rid of that. And I'm not just talking about being over an ex, I'm talking personal growth. Both partners I've had were stagnant in that field, and of course I fell for them for a reason. To be totally honest, their hiccups were part of that reason. I had this need to help, a desire to help them to overcome their hiccups (many women have this tendency). Totally wrong basis for a relationship, but these are (subconscious) psychological processes. Someone confronted me with it by asking the rhetorical question "Why do you need to be needed?" Took me a few years to work that one out! Seems easy, but it's not. I've grown an awful lot, I don't need to be needed anymore. Meaning I'm ready and looking for a different kind of guy. Many Dutch men would fit what I'd like in a partner. Thing is I don't usually like Dutch men 
One thing that plays a role in this, is English language and culture. Many things in my life have (had) to do with that one way or another, in some strange way it's part of me, always has been and always will be. Now that my daughter has moved to the States, the States have my interest as well, haha. Earlier this year I had a date with a guy who's English was almost none existent and I lost interest on the spot  
Long story as to how and what, but I sometimes find it easier to express myself in English. So if a new potential partner doesn't understand English very well, we have a problem before we even started
May seem trivial to some, to me it's important. Sorry for the tome. I'll never look in my crystal ball again to spare you the lengthy stories 
Thank you for being so open in a public debate. It sounds like you have learned a lot over time. Maybe if some not all women were to allow some men that WANT to change the time to do it in a relationship it could work as you would work together to mould each other to a mutual place. I tend to hear of these stories where someone has reached a certain enlightenment but are unwilling to entertain anyone that hasnt reached this place. My answer to them is "dont forget where you came from yourself" Some men are very basic creatures, they have simple needs and some find the inner emotional subject a bit of a mine field. I totally understand about the language barrier, it must be very difficult to communicate how you really feel with only simple words. |
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I just want some one honest and faithful too much to ask? No of course its not too much to ask, you can ask for anything you like, its your life and you have a right to live it the way you choose to. If it makes you and your potential partner happy all the better. Much love x |
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