yeah, I usually dig my hair dark or red as well, but....sometimes I feel the need to do something drastic....see where it takes me.

And I dig the short hair on me too....I've gotten to the point where I can't stand the feeling of hair on my neck....so it works for me. :) And thank you for the compliment. :)

lol again...too late. I'm doin it myself. I've done it before. I'm like you...I've been about every shade from blonde to almost black (which is my natural color) and most of the time it's some shade of red. But....it dosn't burn too much.


right now I'm sittng on my friend's couch with bleach on my head and saran wrap around it. lol

lol too late. The bleach is on the head....has been for a while. Just waiting for it to get super light.

it will probably be dark again by....mid november....I have short hair, so it grows fast and I change my hair so damn much anyway

So, I'm dying my hair blonde......

Not sure how it will turn out. lol

so, I'm not "older" but I am...I'm 27 and it seems that the only boys that are interested in me are 19-22. lol I prefer men who are a few years older than me...or at least my age, but it seems only the super young ones are interested....

though, it does make me feel good that these 21 year old boys are hitting on me, and yet...I'm looking for a relationship at this point, so it's difficult...

What do you all think? Can younger guy/older woman relationships work?

well, you're 18, so some of the bars are off limits to ya, however, there is still fun to be had.

One bar that will let you in is in Goose Creek called "the Dive." it is a navy bar, (and on the naval base) but they do have a lot of cool bands that come through, and on wednesday nights they have karaoke.

Um.....let's see...the Map Room was awesome...but they closed. :( Metal Monday rocked, but it has been cancelled indefinately...:( Other than that, you've got gay bars...which is, likely, not your scene. lol

Other than that, as far as NIGHT life, there's not much....

well, to be completely honest, I cheated in the past...not often, and not on everyone. Sometimes there are psycological reasons that one cheats. For me, it was that I didn't believe that there was any other way out of the relationship. I had tried breaking up with him several times, but he always begged and I always took him back..finally Something clicked in my brain saying, "Well, if I sleep with someone else, he won't take me back..." and he still wanted to....

I have learned my lesson...I'm much better at cutting it clean and sticking to it if I'm going to break up with someone...and haven't cheated since...so...no, I don't think that once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. As with everything...it depends.

One of the roller rinks around here does "adult" night...it's not as dirty as it sounds. lol you just have to be 18 or older to skate...which is kinda nice. :)

lol the irony here is hilarious....said by a man with 2 fingers in his nose. I know I'll have fun here, I always did on JSH.

Well, hi everyone. :) I swear, I used to be a member of "Just say Hi" before it turned to "Mingle2," but apparently I forgot all my log on info or my account was deleted due to inactivity, because I haven't been here in forever. Well, I'm back.

My name is RiN. I am a pretty average girl. I have never won any outstanding awards, or made any unusal achievements. I never started an organization or saved the world. I'm just me, living day to day, trying to make sense of it all, so much as that is possible anyway. One of these days I'll figure something out....what it will be and when...is anyone's guess.

I'm just an ordinary girl, living in an extraordinary daydream.