Thanks guys.

Thank you for the responses guys. I agree that it wouldn't be fair if I jumped straight into another long term relationship with the first girl I met, and I don't intend to do that either. But you're dead right about being alone; I think that needs some getting used to. I hope to find someone to fill that gap at least, even just with friendship or a non serious agreement.

We all have needs to fulfil, right? If I were to meet a girl I'd be sure to state my intentions before continuing just so she was clear about my situation.

I just didn't want to be dishonest and 'cheat' before the divorce actually went through as I wasn't sure if it was fair game or not.

This probably sounds really clich�, but I think I'll probably focus on my career for a while before getting back into any kind of serious relationship; that's not to say I'll just shut all women out, though.

Hi,

My wife and I are recently separated. That means we are still legally married until the divorce goes through.

I just thought I'd open it up to the floor and ask; At what point can I begin seeing new people again? Or is it the norm to be waiting until the divorce fully goes through?

Thanks,