I say it sounds good mate so yeah if u fancy goin hurst st for a couple of drinks and check out some nice ladies I'm game I'm sure there's plenty to go round lol

Lol since joining dating sites 18 months ago I've found some pretty scary people from all over the midlands,, but I guess eventually some normal nice genuine people have to pop up too,, oohhh brum city your right in gay central hey,, lucky you! I'm jealous lol

Ahhhh bless you mr mr mr lol,, but in love it has to be a woman I'm afraid,, however friendship is cool,, I live westbromich

Hi everyone,, I'm posting in the hopes of finding my soulmate,, I'm lesbian living in westmidlands uk,, and hoping to meet a lovely woman for long term love,, and if I can meet some new friends gay or straight that would be fab too,, if your intrested post me or msg me xx

Hi there,, I agree with quizee u have to heal and let yourself learn from your experience before you can completely move on but take heart you've loved once you will love again x

My advice don't play around with ouji boards they attract evil and you don't want to deal with the consequences

Hi there any nice single women looking for love with a nice single woman from the westmidlands,,,I'm searching for my soulmate,, come and say hi if your a single woman from westmidlands looking for love with a woman xx

Thankyou so much leigh for your kind words and positivity,, I too wish you luck

Hi crystalfairy,, I appreciate your honesty your comments and your question,, the only thing I can say to you is that being bicurious your already halfway there,, its different for all women no 2 are the same,, for me I find love and lovemaking much more forfilling with another woman,, it isn't the same as being with a man,, both are very different,, a woman can very effectively forfill another woman,, but you have to experience it for yourself and you will understand far better than I could ever explain to you x

Hi rawgirl,, thankyou for your comments and yes I hold that view that we have many soulmates,, now I'm just looking for my lover partner soulmate,, fingers crossed lol

To red6mist,, in reply to your earlier post to annyjo and myself about being turned on by us and asking do we want to take out uor frustrations on you I couldn't anwser you any better than annyjo did,,,, she expressed both of our opinions of you perfectly,,, your turned on by us god you just turn me off,,, I will not anwser you any further as your a waste of my time,, find yourself a mistress to kick the living **** out of u,,, that's obviously ur bag,,, you vile little slug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Annyjo you go girl pmsl

Red6mist,,,in reply to your once again egotistical arrogant biggoted and poop portrayal of lesbians,,, its after having nights with men like you that made me realise for me a hetrosexual relationship would never be for me and sent me sprinting right in to the arms of a woman,, I'm not sure where you get your information from however I feel its probably from too much porn and not enough experience,, being a lesbian is not just about sex,, and we don't all use strapons,, some of us just don't like them or choose them as we've left the male experiences far behind us,, a man has never had the ability to give me the pleasure you so very obviously believe I need,, I've only ever received that pleasure from a woman minus the dildo,, being with a woman has far greater rewards for me and most lesbians, its the difference in love we receive and give,, the emotionality we feel the connection we make the intensity of passion we we feel for eachother,,the empathy understanding tenderness softness and lust,, there is no comparison for myself,, if god gave me the choice to live 10 lives I would choose every life as a lesbian for that is as natural as forilling and as pleasurable as being hetrosexual is for you,, so contrary to tipping the velvet or whatever other porn you watch to get your views and opinions from not all lesbians require a strap on or the real thing,, this does not go to all men as there are many lovely men out there in a majority but for the minority like you red6mist its not your penis they call a dick that's reserved for the person you are.

Thankyou so much quizee for your kind words and your advice their much appreciated x

Kartagane thank you for your kind words,, and wise words,, I take them sincerely,, and thank you sincerely,,ziwi,, I have faith thankyou I need love not jesus my friend,, and matt,, thankyou for your advice and I am on pof mate

Is it possible later in life to still find your soulmate,, when your looking for same sex,, and is it possible to find that kind of true connected longlasting love relationship on a dating site,, because so far I keep getting guys trying to turn me straight or ask me do I want a threesome or I get ladies asking me to teach them how to be with a woman,,, frustrating when all I'm looking for is true love with the same sex....

I have to say love,,, because without love sex is just that,, sex,, but find love and you have the extra added bonus of a connection that brings you to lovemaking

cheers much lol x

ahhh bless what a lovely poem about a lovely little girl, thats so endearing, well done lovely poem xx

Catherine had been looking for this kind of work for the longest time, she was so happy she had been invited for the interview, she was a little nervous but she had always known this was the kind of work for her, you could say it was kind of a guidance role if you like,she loved helping people, giving her time to anyone who needed it,after all she had been through so many things in her life who better to guide others and steer them away from similar situations and painful outcomes,catherine was such a jolly warm happy person considering all of her lifes trials,it had taken her a long time to wise up to things and steer her life in the right direction but she had got there in the end, she had decided a long time ago she wanted to help vulnerable children and ladies that had suffered abuse and violence as this was one of the biggest consistences she had been through and come out a survivor the other side.
Catherine walked to the interview room full of excitement and eagerness, she knocked the door with a firm positive knock, "Come in catherine" the new boss called, and catherine walked in with confidence,"Sit down, and tell me why you feel you would be the best candidate to fill this role" the boss said, so catherine sat down and began to explain to the boss some of the life experiences she had been through, and her love of people, and her need to work with vulnerable people to give them the guidance and care she herself had failed to recieve, the boss listened intently and replied " ok Catherine, im happy with your interview so im goung to give you a trial period, and if all goes well and were both happy then this full time position will be yours", catherine smiled polietly and replied enthusiastically " i wont let you down boss i will be the best guidance counsellor youve ever employed", with a smile the boss said "i like your enthusiam and empathy you have for people catherine, your first client is a lady named sara, she was sexually abused by her father when she was younger, and abuse seems to have continued following her through her life, shes been repeatedly raped and now is finding it impossible to trust people, to emplore any kind of relationships with men, shes frightened of the world and has hidden herself away like a hermit, withdrew from the world and humankind as such, sorry to throw you in at the deep end but this lady is an urgent case, and really needs help before she attempts anything silly, do you think you can work with this lady catherine?, do you think you can help her, get through to her guide her to a better future, enable her with the right tools to move forward with strength and change the patterning of her life?",Catherine sat still for a few moments pondering over this ladys life, and the things she had faced, and the blackhole she was now in, then she replied" well its going to be a challenge, this ladys been through a lot, but i think with time i can get through to her, help her and guide her to a better path to follow, i would like very much to try boss".
A few days later catherine was sat with sara, she began talking to sara, explaining who she was and what she did, but sara still sat with her head hung down, disintrested, distant and mute, so catherine tried again, she stroked saras hair and said " let me help you, i have been where you have been,the things that have happned to you are terrible, but you dont have to let your father or the other men who have hurt you keep winning,you dont have to be defined by thier actions, with my help and guidance i will help you find trust in people again, i will show you how to protect yourself, i will help you find your own strength, together we can help you live again, regain your confidence, please work with me, sara let me help you", sara got up on the couch lay down buried her head in the cushions and closed her eyes, still not speaking a word, so catherine said" ok sara you sleep and i will come round tomorow and we will try again, you may have given up on yourself, but i dont intend to give up on you no matter how long it takes, i will help you, you will be happy again sara this i promise you", and with that catherine left.
Catherines bossed called her in to the office and asked " hi catherine how is it goin with sara have you made any headway yet?", catherine looked at him and replied" not yet boss i tried for an hour the other day but to no avail i must be honest, shes far to withdrawn, she never heard me, i kept trying, i even stroked her hair, she felt that because she scratched her head in irritataion, i think its going to take longer than i thought, you will give me the chance to keep working with her wont you?, i know i will get through eventually", her boss looked at her with a smile and replied"Yes catherine your the perfect guide to work alongside sara, you have the next fifty years to help and guide her, well done, i watched over you and i was very pleased with what i saw".