Taking all feelings (ie love, emotional intimacy) out of sex is like mutual masturbation with another person. Some of us have experienced this and realized that there is a boundary that we need to establish for ourselves for our own emotional well being. Most of us are not wired to have sex without some basic level of emotional intimacy. Emotional intimacy is developed over time. We then learn how we can trust the other person with our emotions, our personal thoughts, and our physical person. Sexual intimacy encompasses our entire being. To devoid love from sex is not only cheating on yourself but your partner as well.

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