Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out... Not easy to deal with! (I'm showing my age by saying 'these days'.I'm glad i don't feel old ) |
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Sharm el Sheik,Egypt.
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A definite NO for me.She would have to be my best friend and lover before i would even consider marriage
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Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out...
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The Gold Coast,Australia Well, then we can travel together as I want to go to Uluru, Central Australia *Best buy myself a ticket, lol* |
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more cheese less whine
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Very well said Ese ! When i started out on this internet dating adventure,i found that i was defending myself to many ladies who insisted that they had been hurt in the past and didn't want that again.Fair enough,i would reply.Then i would explain that we had that in common because i have been hurt too.For some reason,many seemed to skip over that piece of information as if they had a monopoly on being hurt.Nowadays i tell someone once,and if they insist on repeating themselves i tell them i am not their ex,wish them well with their emotional issues,and say goodbye.Harsh maybe ? Possibly in some cases,but my conscience is clear when i have explained myself.There's nothing wrong with a guy expecting the same initial level of trust that a woman does when we first start chatting is there ? Thankfully,i then found the forums on here,and discovered some amazing women speaking with an open mind.Thank you ladies surprise surprise, men have feelings too. who would have guessed. it's cats like you who get a bowlful of sour grapes from women, eat it gladly, sometimes even ask for seconds, and in the end, if it just doesn't work, move on without having to "get even" or hold it against the next one, that keeps love alive and kicking. hang in there fella, i'm hoping we'll get on the same page as these women somehow |
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XTC
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more cheese less whine
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this is not a rant, just something i think i see. i could be wrong, i have been in the past ohkay, i've been on this site for more than a minute. i've read plenty of nice guy threads, why don't i get a response threads, i have no friends threads, i want a real man threads, etc one thing i see is that ladies start threads about what kind of men they want or need. when you look at their profile, they have emotional baggage, kids, and all kinds of problems that they want a knight in shinning armor to come in a solve. BUT the knight can't be all about sex sex is a part of a healthy relationship and news flash lady. you were willing to have sex with the wrong guy for years and even bear a child or two with him. he wouldn't pay your bills, or treat you like a princess, or do any number of things you wanted, but you would drop your panties for him i guarantee i guarantee i can support myself, feed myself, entertain myself, and when push comes to shove, have sex with myself. BUT for some insane reason i am willing to share everything that is me with a used and abused woman, and i'm sure plenty of other guys on or off mingle have this same crazy idea ladies, please don't make demands or set conditions on a potential new relationship because of failed prior relationships. wipe the slate clean and do what you really want in the first place. start a new life with someone you can be happy with (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending) Thankfully,i then found the forums on here,and discovered some amazing women speaking with an open mind.Thank you ladies |
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Friends and kisses
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SOme friends, yes, others not. Sometimes just a hug, depends on the mood and occasion. Where I come from, we always do 3 kissed on the cheek. Whenever my UK friends come over it gets awkward, as they do just the 2. So then there's me going for the 3rd one while he/she is moving away, lol |
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Hopefully i'll be a great and natural partner for one.That's all that matters
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The Gold Coast,Australia Well, then we can travel together as I want to go to Uluru, Central Australia |
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The Gold Coast,Australia
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Lucky for me that i don't write with a Yorkshire accent Can you please try!? It would kind of go with this thread, lol I never tried to write in 'Yorkshire' before,i'm not even sure if i understand it haha So quite a lot of Scottish in it.. Tha, tu, lass etc |
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not getting any friends
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I have a feeling quite a few profiles are inactive... or at least that's what i'm hoping. I joined last week and sent messages to the 6 or 7 women living in my part of the world and to date have had precisely zero responses! |
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Lucky for me that i don't write with a Yorkshire accent Can you please try!? It would kind of go with this thread, lol I never tried to write in 'Yorkshire' before,i'm not even sure if i understand it haha |
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old but new
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I'm sure you're not,but your username is 'naive' if you read it backwards.Welcome back Evian
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Lucky for me that i don't write with a Yorkshire accent
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Long legs or big boobs??
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I do like long and shapely legs.As for big boobs ? They don't have to be big,but the more sensitive they are for her,the better it is for me
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Painted From Memory- Elvis Costello singing Burt Bacharach songs...fabulous
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I'm thinking most managers are bare faced liars...and the rest have beards
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