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Wed 03/25/15 08:28 AM


Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk laugh ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out...

Not easy to deal with!
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True,but all in the past now.I'm not getting any younger,so the search is on for someone who appreciates how simple life can be with the right person.But simplicity seems to be so complicated these days :smile:
(I'm showing my age by saying 'these days'.I'm glad i don't feel old laugh )

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Wed 03/25/15 08:09 AM
Sharm el Sheik,Egypt.

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Wed 03/25/15 07:53 AM
A definite NO for me.She would have to be my best friend and lover before i would even consider marriage :smile:

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Wed 03/25/15 07:46 AM
Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk laugh ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out...

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Tue 03/24/15 01:58 PM




The Gold Coast,Australia :smile:

Well, then we can travel together as I want to go to Uluru, Central Australia :tongue:
Central Australia is the only part i haven't visited.Such good company would be perfect flowers
Yeah, Central Australia is not exactly en route is it, haha. But ... if I win the lottery... We're going to Australia!
*Best buy myself a ticket, lol*
I'll start packing just in case haha

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Tue 03/24/15 12:53 PM


Very well said Ese ! When i started out on this internet dating adventure,i found that i was defending myself to many ladies who insisted that they had been hurt in the past and didn't want that again.Fair enough,i would reply.Then i would explain that we had that in common because i have been hurt too.For some reason,many seemed to skip over that piece of information as if they had a monopoly on being hurt.Nowadays i tell someone once,and if they insist on repeating themselves i tell them i am not their ex,wish them well with their emotional issues,and say goodbye.Harsh maybe ? Possibly in some cases,but my conscience is clear when i have explained myself.There's nothing wrong with a guy expecting the same initial level of trust that a woman does when we first start chatting is there ?
Thankfully,i then found the forums on here,and discovered some amazing women speaking with an open mind.Thank you ladies flowers


surprise surprise, men have feelings too. who would have guessed. it's cats like you who get a bowlful of sour grapes from women, eat it gladly, sometimes even ask for seconds, and in the end, if it just doesn't work, move on without having to "get even" or hold it against the next one, that keeps love alive and kicking. hang in there fella, i'm hoping we'll get on the same page as these women somehow drinker


I think reality is different.The experiences i refer to are from when i first started on here.I see the warnings in profiles now (if they have bothered to write one).Thankfully i have always had great female friends in my life,so i know there are out there.As to whether i will find the right one on a dating site...who knows...?

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Tue 03/24/15 11:48 AM
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Tue 03/24/15 07:28 AM

this is not a rant, just something i think i see. i could be wrong, i have been in the past

ohkay, i've been on this site for more than a minute. i've read plenty of nice guy threads, why don't i get a response threads, i have no friends threads, i want a real man threads, etc

one thing i see is that ladies start threads about what kind of men they want or need. when you look at their profile, they have emotional baggage, kids, and all kinds of problems that they want a knight in shinning armor to come in a solve. BUT the knight can't be all about sex

sex is a part of a healthy relationship and news flash lady. you were willing to have sex with the wrong guy for years and even bear a child or two with him. he wouldn't pay your bills, or treat you like a princess, or do any number of things you wanted, but you would drop your panties for him

i guarantee i guarantee i can support myself, feed myself, entertain myself, and when push comes to shove, have sex with myself. BUT for some insane reason i am willing to share everything that is me with a used and abused woman, and i'm sure plenty of other guys on or off mingle have this same crazy idea

ladies, please don't make demands or set conditions on a potential new relationship because of failed prior relationships. wipe the slate clean and do what you really want in the first place. start a new life with someone you can be happy with

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

Very well said Ese ! When i started out on this internet dating adventure,i found that i was defending myself to many ladies who insisted that they had been hurt in the past and didn't want that again.Fair enough,i would reply.Then i would explain that we had that in common because i have been hurt too.For some reason,many seemed to skip over that piece of information as if they had a monopoly on being hurt.Nowadays i tell someone once,and if they insist on repeating themselves i tell them i am not their ex,wish them well with their emotional issues,and say goodbye.Harsh maybe ? Possibly in some cases,but my conscience is clear when i have explained myself.There's nothing wrong with a guy expecting the same initial level of trust that a woman does when we first start chatting is there ?
Thankfully,i then found the forums on here,and discovered some amazing women speaking with an open mind.Thank you ladies flowers

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Mon 03/23/15 02:50 PM

SOme friends, yes, others not. Sometimes just a hug, depends on the mood and occasion.

Where I come from, we always do 3 kissed on the cheek. Whenever my UK friends come over it gets awkward, as they do just the 2. So then there's me going for the 3rd one while he/she is moving away, lol
Haha,my friends girlfriend caught me out with the three kiss thing,the first two landed,but the third hit fresh air.I must try to remember that when i get there next month :smile:

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Mon 03/23/15 01:43 PM
Hopefully i'll be a great and natural partner for one.That's all that matters :smile:

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Mon 03/23/15 01:37 PM


The Gold Coast,Australia :smile:

Well, then we can travel together as I want to go to Uluru, Central Australia :tongue:
Central Australia is the only part i haven't visited.Such good company would be perfect flowers

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Mon 03/23/15 10:59 AM
The Gold Coast,Australia :smile:

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Mon 03/23/15 09:38 AM




Lucky for me that i don't write with a Yorkshire accent laugh

Can you please try!? It would kind of go with this thread, lol
'Ey up Op ! Tha needs tu speak proper English like wot we do in Yorkshire.Can't understand a bloody word thas sayin !Try 't Bing Crosby thing that that Crystal lass is on abart.Yull bi' pullin 't birds in no time tha noz.

I never tried to write in 'Yorkshire' before,i'm not even sure if i understand it haha

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So quite a lot of Scottish in it.. Tha, tu, lass etc
Damn it ! I knew the accent wouldn't come across properly haha

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Mon 03/23/15 09:31 AM

I have a feeling quite a few profiles are inactive... or at least that's what i'm hoping. I joined last week and sent messages to the 6 or 7 women living in my part of the world and to date have had precisely zero responses!


It takes time,but not having a picture won't help.Good luck anyway...

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Sun 03/22/15 03:03 PM


Lucky for me that i don't write with a Yorkshire accent laugh

Can you please try!? It would kind of go with this thread, lol
'Ey up Op ! Tha needs tu speak proper English like wot we do in Yorkshire.Can't understand a bloody word thas sayin !Try 't Bing Crosby thing that that Crystal lass is on abart.Yull bi' pullin 't birds in no time tha noz.

I never tried to write in 'Yorkshire' before,i'm not even sure if i understand it haha

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Sun 03/22/15 02:00 PM
I'm sure you're not,but your username is 'naive' if you read it backwards.Welcome back Evian :smile:

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Sun 03/22/15 01:14 PM
Lucky for me that i don't write with a Yorkshire accent laugh

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Sun 03/22/15 08:34 AM
I do like long and shapely legs.As for big boobs ? They don't have to be big,but the more sensitive they are for her,the better it is for me :smile:

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Sun 03/22/15 04:08 AM
Painted From Memory- Elvis Costello singing Burt Bacharach songs...fabulous :smile:

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Sun 03/22/15 02:50 AM
I'm thinking most managers are bare faced liars...and the rest have beards

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