I started to feel that saving myself for marriage wont make any sense,because the girl whom i will be marrying [NO IDEA WHERE IS SHE]in future wont be a virgin.So why saving it?For sake of the religion or for the sake of saving the marriage?I am not desperate to loose it but i dont know if i should save it ??Please Advice

I grew up in the middle east ,Malaysia and UK .Recently landed in India and i have to say this country is really damn strange.But i am an Indian origin so i have to be with my own kind.But the problem is I DONT ''THINK'' like them[Indians] ...Is people in here too closed minded or what?I met a few girls locally but i dont know what is in their heads DATING=MARRIAGE????....i feel a little bit complicated to get along with the ones i met ....Is other guys who was bought up abroad feel the same Way as i am or its JUST ME?

i am interested in having relationship with a mature lady from age 30-55 but never dated one yet... i would like to get suggestions from guys who dated a mature lady before. which one is better mature lady or an young lady???