Being a woman myself, I never really understand this either. I have had bad experiences myself, but I try not to blame others. We are all human, and we all make mistakes. I givecredit when its due, but I also am not afraid to admit when I was wrong. I just try to learn from my own mistakes, along with others so that I can be a better person. Blaming others gets you nowhere really.....
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I honestly try not to go onto any situation expecting anything. I'm more the type to take it slow and just get to know the person for who they are. Also to see how things go. Its to easy to expect something, only to be let down. I find it much more rewarding going in, and turning it into a llearning experience. All to often people expect things from others instead of just accepting them for who they are as a person.
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What advice to give???
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He does not need advice, he needs a reality check. Honestly, who cares if he goes mental? If you really disprove of his actions, tell him so and be done with him. You can't control what he wants to do with his life and any advice you try to offer would only be humoring him after you have given your original opinion. Exactly! Because if she's Willing to cheat on her husband with him, she'll do the same if not worse to your friend, and obviously isn't someone worth persuing. This alone says a lot about her morals as a woman, and that she has no self respect.... |
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Maybe you should look into purchasing a dictionary, and stuff... ,mmkay?
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I already posted this once in the parenting section, but since its technically a dating question too, I am trying here.
I am a single mom of two children. I have a girl and a boy. Did you have a hard time finding someone that accepted your children? And also how did you approach the subject with kids with your girl? I haven't dated anyone in a long time, and I'm looking to get back into the dating scene. Does your partner have children of their own? And if so how do you get along with them? If you're closed minded on this subject, please do not respond. No bashing. My choices are my own, so please do not post if your only going to judge me. |
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ACTIVATE YOUR DUTY
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PARENTS, PLEASE COME BACK FROM WHERE YOU ARE AND SPEAK TO THE CHILDREN IN GOOD WAYS THEY SHOULD GROW I only have one question for you. Do you have kids of your own? |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 24
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Single. Married once, divorced, engaged, that didn't work. Now I'm taking my time looking for the right person that compliments me. I know what I want, and I know my worth. Independent, single mom for the moment. The way I see it, things happen for a reason. And I try to learn from everything. :-)
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Slow in Houston...
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Yes, it is slow. But I think that good things usually do take some time. :-)
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what is attraction
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jinks....what you have to say is important ,,,i learn from everyone....there is a part of us [the left brain] that is logical so we say we want that person to be honest, loving, caring,faithful, etc.....then theres a part thats emotional [right brain] theres another part that's our hormones......the part that causes us the most problems in our lives is the emotional side.......inside every one there is child,, all our feelings come from the child,,,this important to know... for example ,,do i deserve t:-) :-) :-) :-) :-) o be happy.?... am i lovable..? what the child in us believes is our reality........when i refer to feelings i mean...mad,sad,glad,and scared.........have you ever witnessed someone talking about something painful while smiling or laughing..?.what they are doing is stuffing there feeling because the pain is so great.......its the disowned parts of us that cause the most problems in our lives......when the situation calls for us to be in your adult......and we are stuck in our adaptive child or critical parent then we have our problems...............whats driving us is our favorite feelings,,,,,,,,,and beliefs about ourselves and others inside our child................the only person we can do anything about is us........thats why its so important to also see our part in our lives...........men for the most part favor there left brain ...the ladies on the other hand favor there right brain....could this also be an issue..?.... both have a very good side.......its understanding the other that can help us understand ourselves...... Yes I agree. I often find myself smiling when discussing my daughters liver transplant.... although she endured great suffering and pain before she was a year old, it gives me strength knowing she prevailed. She is now six, an we are 5 years post transplant. But what she endured, and what I he been through have made us who we are now. Painfl as it is to remember, i smile knowing she has the strenght, and is my inspiration. Sorry off topic........ I enjoy readi your posts. They are very insightful, and you are very wise. |
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To win Jink's heart. I know she's stubborn but deep down I think she likes me. There is a beautiful picture of her in a red dress. It was love at first sight. And this is exactly why your sorry *** got blocked from my profile. And you obviously don't know me too well, because I don't wear dresses. Second you midas well put your sick fantasy to rest because I'm a lesbian. And further more I wouldn't touch you with a sterilized ten foot pole. Your a sick individual, and need some serious help. Not to mention delusional, perverted, and you seriously need to leave me alone. You have done nothing but stalk me for days now, and it needs to stop! You have no respect for anyone, and from what I can tell everyone here really dislikes you. You have absolutely no disdain or a filter. You think your God's gift to women, when your noting but a looser. I don't like you, and I never will. So go choke on a bloody rock already. |
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REAL trus enables a level of commitment which can simply not be achieved without it. Keep in mind; if you do not trust your partner, you can not possibly fully commit to him / her, rendering the relationship meaningless really. But this is just my humble opinion... |
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what is attraction
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sexual tension, chemistry, etc...what draws us to another.????? what is attraction..?????.. I'd have to say for me a big one is chemistry, personality, and intellect. Intelligence, and being able to have intelligent conversations. The ability to be one's self, being comfortable around that person. Trust, that's another big one..... I'm a very blunt person, and usually say exactly what's on my mind. So idk, feel free to stop me if I'm rambling. Lol |
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Male Escorts
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im here just to talk people ..i dont know why people search sex here Idk why they do either. I have had to block quite a few perverts already.... Some of the messages are just plain sickening..... But it seems no matter where I go, what site I visit it all seems the same....... I must say despite the perves, I do enjoy this particular site because of the free features. And its easier to block the unwanted attention seekers.... |
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Looking for a girlfriend
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i am paul by name, i stay in lagos, n i will wish yu be my sex mate, expecting yur reply.. Reply to phaul.damilola@yahoo.com You might go back and actually read her post this time. : rofl: |
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I'm here to meet new people have fun and a laugh with people and maybe make some new friends at the same time..like to also learn new things from people and just generally socialise and exchange opinion..but like I said like to have a joke too just to lighten the mood I agree. I like to make jokes myself. And it is kinda neat to get others opinion. |
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I think people put far too much emphasis on sex and not enough on individuality. I've been very attracted to certain women but consider myself "straight". If a person is awesome then they are awesome. I'm attracted to the spirit of the person, not the appendages. I agree completely. I for one am tired of everyone guys and girls alike making everything about sex. I'm definitely attracted to ones personality over all else. A relationship shouldn't be about sex. It should be getting to know one another for who they really are,bbuilding a foundation, and companionship. All of the above is true; however if I like your personality, but not your sex, then I can't have dealings with you no matter how much money you have. For one you probably enjoyed sex with me way more than I enjoyed it with you and now I gotta keep making up excuses every time you make hints towards hitting the sacks. If I seem shallow to some, I am. It's my hot nature. That's part of the reason I've been married twice. I like in- house d**k that's just as obligated to give me some as I am to give some. Well put. |
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Looking for a girlfriend
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I'm technically bisexual but when it comes to dating, physical chemistry and such, I have a definite preference for women. After two serious relationships with women, both of which ended badly (the latter of which was my fault), I realized that I needed to buck up my ideas. And now that I know what I want, she seems elusive...typical. What I want to know is, are there any lesbian/bi ladies in a relationship or otherwise, who can give me advice? it would be greatly appreciated. Give it time, be yourself and the right girl will come along. I myself am looking for the right woman as well. I have only been back in the dating scene for a short time. I'm taking it slow, because I don't want to rush into something, only to be hurt, again..... I also did some soul searching for a long time. I redescovered myself, and thought long and hard about who I am as a person, and what I'm looking for in others. Hope this helps. :-) :-) :-) |
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THE WALKING DEAD
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Who cannot wait for Season Four? The walking dead is my favorite show ever. I don't care if I don't watch anything the restof the year, iI never miss Walking dead. :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) |
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yes your right im a fulltime single dad and mom not around NEED ADVICE ABOUT 9 YR OILD DAUGHTER PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE What exactly are you needing help with??? I've been raising kids since I was 13. Started with my nieces and nephews, and then had my own after 21. I'd be willing to answer questions to the best of my ability. |
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