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"Silent Treatment"
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I've used it before. Sometimes I'm just too upset or frustrated to deal with the situation. I want to be left alone for a while, calm down, get over it, maybe even have time to think. I have kept it up for up to 3 days. Some things I feel so strongly or so confused about that I literally need that long. If I don't take the full time, then I will be rushed into talking about it before I am ready to communicate effectively. I think there's no problem with using it like that, but I could be wrong. In this case if your sitting on a thought then silencing that until you have come to an agreement with yourself is another thing..but when using to other use that are negative in nature is another thing. |
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"Silent Treatment"
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power and control emotional abuse It can be be both to some...how about if you were chatting with someone or dating and all of a sudden the silent treatment, then what are your thoughts. |
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"Silent Treatment"
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NO WAY!!! I am the extreme oppisite..... i am VOCAL...... and if ya give me the silent treatment..... ohhhh baby i will go on none stop till ya wanna die!!  
Absolutely, get the response and let's move on right... |
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Confused.
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well in my humble opinion... thats EXACTLY what ya do!!!!! The baby should be your one and only concern right now...men really shouldnt be in your plans for awhile...that baby will take up 24/7 with its needs..and those needs come first...even before yours!! then down the line...look for a man...its not mandatory.... plus...really....men are not gonna be all that attracted to a newborn........most are not...thats just fact so concentrate soley now on being a mom...thats your main job now for a while...
I agree this is great advice...focus on what is important right now, give yourself time to sit with the emotions of your previous relationship before you commit to another. 
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"Silent Treatment"
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Have you ever found yourself at the other end of a chilly silence with no explanation from the source or have you been the source of the tendency to apply the silent treatment on another? Why use this mode of response?
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Hi just looking to see if there is a decent Honest lady left cause its so hard to trust exaple my ex girlfriend when i helping a friend that was not well she said shes going out with her friends i said sure as i not the jealous type i found out a week lady she went to a party n was making out with a guy of course i dropped her but she cried and wanted me back i said no thanks i gave u freedom n trust you broke the trust n honesty this was like 3 years ago since then its hard to trust i am a great guy fun to be with n maybe to nice thats why it happened but i learn from mistakes :) so is there any real true ladys left? let me know thank you all hugsssssss Absolutely 90% of us are hot, sexy, decent, honest, flirtatious, hardworking, loving, motherly, we wear many hats, have many functions, but one thing we have in common no matter what culture were from when we love we love hard........our children, husband, friends, and so on... |
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Is this site worth it :(
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hmm I think you pretty much only get as much out of these sites as you bring into them. the beauty of having forums like this is it gives you the chance to show yourself off a bit if you are here looking for a partner. Most dating sites you only get a profile for people to go by. Here you get the chance to show what you're all about. Suppose it can hurt some as much as help others I guess.lol Best way I look at it is go in expecting nothing and you may be pleasantly suprised. if nothing else you can at least have a few laughs. I second that....this site is wonderful the people are hilarious and bring so much to the table in conversations. In fact, this is so much better than eharmony...and boy did I put up some bucks...but oh well we win some and we lose some.... I wasn't aware of the fun and laughter one gets when involved in the forums, you guys are incredible, better than my staff... |
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relationships
Edited by
LoveAlina
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Sat 11/13/10 04:18 AM
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"Most people aren't ready for a serious relationship". This is true in many cases. "No matter age some people are confused and reject great chances at real relationships and love". This can occur from time to time, and how unfortunate for those who do. "Sleeping with just anybody or everybody isn't helping though" We wonder why the spread of STDs is increasing. "Most people are happy being single and having many sex partners" They have a high sexual desire, perhaps. "Only one persons opinion... nobody is happy being alone!" :)The feeling of being lonely is a difficult one to deal with, however I would question why are you feeling lonely, what is the void you feel that makes you feel this way, once you respond to these question you will find a resolution to your emotion of feeling lonely; perhaps your void may be; not having a significant other, finances, etc., just get rid of the emotion....you will be more merry if you do..... |
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if your single
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what are some of the reasons you think you are and have a hard time meeting someone? 1.i don't want to get married 2.location 3.i don't do LDRs these are my 3 reasons i think why,its not a multiple choice I've met many potential candidates so meeting someone hasn't been an issue; however meeting someone free from negative "isms" is the challenge. People's thoughts and actions are conditioned by their "isms" and they begin to use these "isms" as reasons not to move forward in life; in many areas including "love". You can weed them out just by how they express themselves; most often they're full of fear; regrets; hopelessness because they continue to carry the heavy load of "isms" over their shoulders. People have a difficult time freeing themselves from negative past experiences; but deep down inside they want it all love, peace, joy, and happiness and most importantly a loving partner....whether they say it or not a loving partner in marriage....is the inside feeling.... You are your worst nightmare when you are allowing such things to dictate your moving forward towards the reason why your here in search of..... |
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I STRONGLY DISLIKE FLAKERS
Edited by
LoveAlina
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Fri 11/12/10 02:13 PM
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Its not funny, i once got internally searched at the airport because they thought my flakes were drugs. Your kidding, that is even more hilarious,  do you have that so severe....
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I STRONGLY DISLIKE FLAKERS
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Hey! I Cant help the flakes i have psoriasis! Me too lets gather our flakes into one pile after collecting them off our psoriasis patches. 
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I STRONGLY DISLIKE FLAKERS
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yeah they rather chat than actually meet,means they aren't what they portray They are portraying what they are, except their inviting you to their selfish party, just simply say to yourself "not my kinda party" and move on to the next. Hence, there are some who instead of saying "I'm not interested" they'll put you through this song and dance (of what not's), lead you on, next thing you know you've wasted days and sometimes weeks. Do yourself a favor like I have provide yourself with what I call valuable time. Set a value time, if he/she has not fulfilled that value time, it's time to move on.....
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I STRONGLY DISLIKE FLAKERS
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Yes you wonder why this happens to women & men. Rather than drag a stagnate man or women; provide yourself a time-limit in which you will afford yourself and him/her in moving forward.
If you see that he/she is stagnate move on to the next, there is always a next, always. Setting a time-limit will provide you with having a wait boundary that you will put up with, and never ever go past that boundary. This will help you eliminate the dragging fiasco..
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Sorry you feel that way but if I were you I wouldn't hang out with people who make you feel bad. So to do you a favor I will stop contacting you since you feel bad when I do. I wish you the best and I hope you find someone to hang with that doesn't make you feel abused and misused. Take care Me I second Dragoness, unfortunately he sees you as all the others even though you have been upfront with him..... 
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Eh? You have a Superman and you need a new one? lol No, don't have a Superman, but I have a superman shirt and I need a new one, have one? |
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"Wow.. you really *are* Superman!" Yeah with a whole lot of superpowers.. 
Was wearing a Superman shirt.. lol I need a new one..have one... lol |
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The greatest compliment I received was from myself...when I said to myself that I love me....it was then I knew I could accept love from all others and give it as well.
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getting what you deserve
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If I were to get what I think I'm truly deserving of all h...will break loose, but then again who really does, we always have to compromise always.....
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getting what you deserve
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Do you ever feel like you'll never get the person you deserve? Yes, because the person I deserve doesn't exist. sure she does...you just haven't cross path with that person... |
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interracial dating
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Once you go white, you're never quite right!:) I've heard once you go black you never look back! :) and once you go Latin you stay hooked on satin! :)
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