Well, I feel that physical attraction is the first thing the eyes see. I don't mind communicating with someone that is interested in meeting, but I think that women sometimes don't want to make the first contact/ But maybe it's just me :-). I have been on these sites before and have very little luck finding someone, and if it happens they are usually an hour or two away which is hard to establish a close relationship. Not many alternatives though when you don't do the bar scene or live in a small town.