R u complaining?

Anybody see the irony here?!!

Day off.....R E L A X A T I O N ....:)

Hes playing a game, if the email was on here, block him.

Good point Lisa, smoking and overeating are both personal choices(excluding health reasons for obesity)and i dont see why smokers are not entitled to free relevant healthcare if ppl with obesity are?


As to fat ppl being beautiful......the body is only a shell....ppl are beautiful, no matter wat shape or size, its the beauty of the persona that shines thru ultimately.

A clairvoyant is different from a Psychic

To be psychic means u have extrasensory perception, a Clairvoyant, which means "clear seeing" claims to communicate/see spirit.

Its a shame there are so many charlatans out there who spoil the reputation of the genuine Clairvoyants.

The best readings are free, visit spiritualist halls for demonstrations, that way u know they arent in it for money.

Gene Kelly, Fred Astaire, Gregory Hines, Baryshnikov, Bob Hope, Bing Crosby

Micheal Jackson, Patrick Swayze, Diversity......


Men can move too :)

Firstly, needing drama can be a trait of both sexes, thats down to the individual, secondly, i dont recall ever complaining about 'crap' i have to put up with from men,(I dont generalise men) as that would be my fault for putting up with it, besides, all the men i have been in relationships with, were completely diff.
Each relationship is different, and ppl need to adjust, grow and develop within it.

To ask a question of a sex on such a general level, will never find ur answers, life and ppl are too specific. Its not just women who complain, ive witnessed many men speak of women in a stereotypical way, complaining about them, it seems to fuel the boys chats

Men an women can both be guilty of generalising and steroetyping. Its about individuals, not sexes.

Imo, if someone is publically complaining about either of the sexes, it is a sure indication that person is in a place emotionally that they havent moved on from, in regards to a loved one.

Cake and eat it comes to mind.....greed......the need to have more than one source of affection/romance.

As humans we are given a brain to learn, wat we do with that education is personal choice.....unfortunately....some ppl r good ppl, and some ppl r not.

Without wrong, we would not know right, theres always been a natural flow of good and bad, its part of life.
Nobody knows where we r heading, societies evolve, very slowly.

We do wat we can in our own lifetime, thats our purpose.

Haha! tried to answer this as best i could, but i just came off a 15hr shift and i may be gibbering!!

Optimist here.....half full :)

Found this, kinda interesting...

"General usage: social class

In more recent years, usage of the word the lady is even more complicated. Journalist William Allen White noted one of the difficulties in his 1946 autobiography. He relates that a woman who had paid a fine for prostitution came to his newspaper to protest, not that the fact of her conviction was reported, but that the newspaper had referred to her as a "woman" rather than a "lady." Since that incident, White assured his readers, his papers referred to human females as "women", with the exception of police court characters, who were all "ladies".

White's anecdote touches on a phenomenon that others have remarked on as well. In the late nineteenth and early twentieth century, in a difference reflected in Nancy Mitford's essay "U vs. non-U", lower class women strongly preferred to be called "ladies" while women from higher social backgrounds were content to be identified as "women." Alfred Ayers remarked in 1881 that upper middle class female store clerks were content to be "saleswomen," while lower class female store clerks, for whom their job represented a social advancement, indignantly insisted on being called "salesladies." Something of this sense may also be underneath Kipling's lines:

For the Colonel's lady an' Judy O'Grady —
Are sisters under their skins!

These social class issues, while no longer on the front burner in the twenty-first century, have imbued the formal use of "lady" with something of an odour of irony (e.g: "my cleaning lady").

It remains in use, for example, as a counterpart to "gentleman," in the phrase "ladies and gentlemen," and is generally interchangeable (in a strictly informal sense) with "woman" (as in, "The lady at the store said I could return this item within thirty days."). "Ladies" is also the normal text on the signs to any female toilet in a public place in the UK, again paired with "Gentlemen"

Maybe it stems from this?

"As a title of nobility the uses of "lady" are parallel to those of "lord". It is thus a less formal alternative to the full title giving the specific rank, of marchioness, countess, viscountess or baroness, whether as the title of the husband's rank by right or courtesy, or as the lady's title in her own right. A peeress's title is used with the definite article: Lord Morris's wife is "The Lady Morris". A widow's title derived from her husband becomes the dowager, e.g. The Dowager Lady Smith. The title "Lady" is also used for a woman who is the wife of a Scottish feudal baron, the title "Lady" preceding the name of the barony."

Maybe its about being treated as royalty, being pampered, spoiled...?

Thats wat i was thinkin!

Seriously, online, its good to be cautious, but not so good to be paranoid.

Did he tell u he was on several sites?

Dating for me is all about variety,i like doing something different that we havent experienced together yet....i like live events, visiting different places/landmarks/eateries...i like playing pool, bowling and other competitive challenges.

Its all about sharing new experiences in a social aspect for me.


I think the best first date is bowling and a beer :)

By being very real and accepting its not meant to be.

If u genuinely love someone, u would want them to be happy, whether with u or not.

Keep busy, dont dwell.

You better not be talking to Dan's thighs!

This is from pink_lady's boyfriend Dan and i am posting only to say that this whole thing sounds like a load of BS.

Ok, i dont get this, just cos he cant drink scotch doesnt mean he cant spend time with friends!

Secondly, why r u talking about his private stuff like him taking viagra on a public site?

All seems a bit odd to me!