I met a guy on this site and clicked to Match with him, but everytime I get on it doesn't show him as one of my Matches. I just joined a couple weeks ago. Me and the guy have been emailing each other a lot and both of us are starting to have feeling for each other. He lives in another state, but my question is why isn't it showing him as one of my Matches?

Hello,
I am new to this site also. I saw one guy that really has got my interest and have click to Match with him, but everytime I look it doesn't show him as one of my Matches. We have chatted on IM and the more I get to know about him the more I want to know. I am looking for a long term relationship that leads to marriage. I lost my husband almost 4 years ago. I knew him for 37 years, and I know he would want me to move on with my life. I am ready for love, and marriage. I hope to find it on this site. I am focused on one guy at this time. I know I may be making a mistake, but I can't help thinking about him all the time.