When I read this topic, I thought this topic would be about ugly people.

Glad to see it's a much friendly and funnier topic.

Now to out there and walk each other!! I'm staying in.

I don't know any woman that say looks don't matter.

They do matter. A lot!!!

However, I make it a personal rule to never send a message to "shirtless guy". It seems really vain to post a picture like that.

Since my original post was such a well received statement, I thought why not introduce myself?

I admit it, I'm here to meet someone. IN REAL LIFE. To hang if we are right for each other, to move on if we are not. Hence the headline, "I've got enough friends...." However, I would rather spend the rest of my life alone than end up with the wrong person.

Not desparate to settle down; not interested in becoming pen pals. I've got a lot to say and I don't hold back.

So, that's me. Rude, stressed, lonely, brave, sexist, sassy, *****y, needy, confident, whatever you label it, only a lucky few will every get to know for sure.

It's not that I am bashing men, I don't date women. I'm bashing the profiles I view, Duh.

I'm sure both of you reply to lots of woman with no pic.

Thanks for the nice thoughts, but I've been online dating for a long time, just not specific to this site. And trust me, I'm not stressed. I just!! enjoy!! the exclaimation point!!!

You're a doll :)

For the mysterious writer.

I am so frustrated with men that don't post a picture. Hello?! It's 2008, online dating is out of the shadows and in the mainstream now. When they don't have one I think one of the following"

1) He is too stupid to figure out a camera or the "upload picture" feature.
2) He is married and out on the prowl for some fun.
3) He had no confidence in himself at all.
4) He's not serious about meeting someone.
5) He thinks women are too desparate to care if he postes a picture.

While I'm at it. If you are only going to put one sentance in your profile, you better have pictures!! I get people that are just looking for a casual encounter and don't want to post their life story, but come on!! How can you except me to reply to NOTHING!!!

Ok, so maybe they are just not confident in themselves at all. It's no big deal to check out a profile. I check some out cause the guy is hot, some people the guy looks goofy. Once and a while, I pull one up because he looks familiar or because the headline catches my eye. And then my favorite: I ALWAYS pull up a guy with tattoos, just cause I dig them.