Well I am a Jersey guy, and I am a very nice man. But where has it gotten me. Nowhere, but one of my problems is that I don't see other people the same as most people do. I see them using love, and a lot of women and men don't understand that. I will try to explain. If you use an anaolgy like baking a cake, then you can say that the ingredents are love, caring, listening, accepting, helping, just being with each other, sharing, and put these and a lot more together, and you will come up with a cake, that is awesome for the both of you. That is how I and my mate create a relationship of LOVE. Oh one more thing, anyone like icing? Well, the icing is the SEX, So what you have is a very loving realationship, along with some very good SEX, and together that creates a loving cake, and loving realationship. Oh my puter can't spell, and it's grammer is the pitz. lol RON