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ok,,j, i guess everybody's at work n they'll be here tonite ,,,,maybe when we're sleepin!?!
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Sweetest Thing
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awwww, im sorry for your loss, but i can imagine you can still travel those same roads (with her beside you) n remember, feel, imagine the very presence of your experience, n dont you ever forget that, my friend!! it can happen again!!
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Newbie
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welcome!! it'll happen, so be patient! blessings!
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,,,yup, thanx j,
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Different men desire different things in a woman they desire,,Men step Up To The Post!
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Sweetest Thing
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what a great gesture, tho! let that be a tremendous stepping stone to a very greatful, n considerate partner in the future to relate to! imagine the possibilities,,,
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--- Why I'm Single Rant ---
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you stated 'i deal with social anxiety n dont go out alot',,the best bet, as it seems to me, would be to take baby steps getting out there where people are. just a short trip to a convenience store 4 a drink may be a good start,,progress from there; when u find ur self feeling scared n isolating,,get out of the house for SOMETHING, you can do it,,only you can! blessings! lol,,,i need help learning how to use the 'quote' thingy here!! |
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--- Why I'm Single Rant ---
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you stated 'i deal with social anxiety n dont go out alot',,the best bet, as it seems to me, would be to take baby steps getting out there where people are. just a short trip to a convenience store 4 a drink may be a good start,,progress from there; when u find ur self feeling scared n isolating,,get out of the house for SOMETHING, you can do it,,only you can! blessings!
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--- Why I'm Single Rant ---
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I married right out of high school and seven years and a child later that came to an abrupt end. I've only been in one serious relationship after that and now I find myself in my thirties, alone and do wish I could find someone. I'm to the point now though that it's whatever will be will be. All expectations out the window and being single has become my normal. So what's the problem? I've come to realize for me that it's partially location but mostly it's me. People come and go here on the Big Island all the time. Those who can live here have $$$ and are usually older and not in my dating range, many times they're here to retire. There are really young women who leave for the mainland to go to college and don't usually return, young couples trying to pursue the fantasy of life in paradise who eventually go back, or there are a few locals in my age range that make it here somehow with their families' help, it's just that I don't share a lot of common interests with typical Hawaiian upbringing. I'm not racist at all, it's just I have found that for me, I'm more compatible and have more in common with Caucasian women. I'm more than willing to be proven wrong in that observation. Location is really just an excuse though, since the issue is really me. I deal with social anxiety and don't go out a lot. I tend to avoid situations I feel uncomfortable in and first dates fit the bill. Meeting new people is tough for me. When it comes to love, I'm not the one to make it happen, I wait for it, like a strike of lightning. It's struck a few times for me but lately it feels like my luck has run out. I think I'd fit best with an understanding women or one who also knows what it's like to be a socially retarded, introverted might be a better way of putting it =) I'd like to think everyone has a companion out there, someone to add to every aspect of their lives. I hope I'm right and not the exception. |
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breakup
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possible but pretty difficult,,,usually the term 'close acquaintances' would be closer to reality
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Topic:
Monogamy or Polygamy...?
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Although the definition is more applied to "Marriage" I believe that it also applies to relations and courtship So which do you prefer ? And do you let that person KNOW when you are being "Friends" ? I prefer a monogamous typs of friendship Where we are BOTH secure in our feelings toward one another to also have "Just friends " as well... I do like a few of the ladies in here But because of "misunderstandings" I am reluctant to say specifically WHO I like my feelings to be reciprocated feelings But maybe this is what is lacking with YOU and your desire as well ? So tell us ? Monogamy or Polygamy in relationships ? 
KiK What are monogamous friendships? If you're just friends, why worry about whether they have other friends. Sounds like you're actually talking about dating instead? If I'm friends with someone, that's completely different than dating. Anyway, in the beginning I think it's fine to date more than one person as long as everyone is honest. But that's just the beginning. Once you start dating more seriously, definitely monogamy. my sentiments xactly!! |
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Love could take varieties of form to express itself. Do you really think that one can find genuine love in online dating which often is often a distant relationship? How would you know if they are the one? You can't for sure unless you actually meet up in the real world. You can get a good feeling about somebody by getting to know them online though. I mean, there can be "chemistry", as they call it. yup,,ya took the words right outta my mouth,, |
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Topic:
SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 23
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Still ... Here for the free snacks 
I got chips & salsa 
Sweet!!!! I'll be right over!!! 
salsy N sweet,,,,great combination!! |
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hi jolly,,don't be discouraged at the low number,,just keep pressing through. one thing i did notice is the distance, that would deter me if i was looking for a relationship n i was living in the states. i hope you find your hearts desire, blessings!
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i joined last pm
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thank you so much,,whats a 'nudge!?!
 , n why would i want to respond to a kiss at first site  !?!? jus sayin,,
is there any way to follow certain posts like this one so i can give appropriate replys? again thanx bunchez for my welcome,,if i seen i huggy smily id give ya one! |
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i joined last pm
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wow! im impressed so far n excited to get acquainted with yall. ive been a member of certain sites previously n made great friendships. i look forward to getting to know everyone here! im not puter savvy so i may need a lil guidance every now n then!!
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Rahab The Prostitute:
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good stuff. just read bout that this am,,,Joshua 6 to be exact!! to know even a prostitute n all those sins were forgiven n protected n saved, even honored by Him! whew
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great stuff celibatelover,,,yes friend, ur relationship with Him is EVERYTHING in this horrific time you are facing,,satan will work relentlessly to keep you down, having a party in front of ur face when you get discouraged, prayer is purely talking to Him bout everything,,EVERYTHING,,He will give you words to reply, faith when ur empty, ya just gotta persevere! you KNOW that you KNOW, He is with you n there is NO other LIKE HIM,,ohhh,,there are plenty of others,,,but NONE like your Creator/Saviour! dont give up now, ,,n THANK YOU FOR SERVING my friend! prayers going up for you NOW
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Nothing Surprises Him!
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i have a relationship with my Saviour,,am going thru a very difficult time, nothing new to me, n i know nothing surprises Him! james 1 states the trials n tribulations we go thru obtain perseverance,,i persevere,,but im so blessed i found this site n this community, yall have encouraged n blessed me so much. thanx!
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Sex and Single Christians
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i'm brand new to this site, never even HEARD of it before, id been on christian mingle for years, then stuff happens,,,couldnt afford it any longer,,,so i searched n found you! i cant tell you what a blessing you are to me as ive read some of ur posts! youve been very uplifting to me in at a very difficult time in my life! God bless yall, n cant wait for mure, lol. hope i can navigate myself thru here! thanx for the great post,,guess ya know my take on this one!!
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