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Wed 09/01/21 10:34 PM
First off! We must first get a true understanding as to what sex was given to mankind for, and once that understanding has been gained, then use sex for it's original and only purpose, which is to procreate and to bond husband and wife together, for their life span. Sex is a spiritual gift that bonds a man and woman together, but it's use is for a committed husband and wife, not just for a man and woman to enjoy sexual pleasure. Committing this act outside of wedlock is fornication, which means, you are creating multiple soul ties with different partners, and once the sexual act is committed, you are joined to every person you have had sex with, and the other people your partner has had sexual encounters with. That is why I no longer have sex, and want to experience the gift with the woman in whom I'll spend the rest of my life with.

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Wed 09/01/21 10:22 PM
lets say man have erectile disfunction. could a woman still love him? if a woman really loves you, she will continously loving you regarless having sex or not.

A woman can love a man even if he has E.D., but if she's lusting in her heart after other men, she has committed adultery, vice versa for the man. One's heart is to only desire their mate, not no other person.

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Wed 09/01/21 02:32 AM
I thought the New Testament established that monogamy was the proper thing though? So it was no longer biblical to be polyamorous.

And what ways have monogamy failed? If anything, monogamy is more stable in terms of family and civilization. Monogamy also made it work so that overall more people were able to find partners. In polyamorous/polygynous/polyandrous societies, only the minority of men/women were able to find partners.

Not at all. What did Yahusha Hamashiach say in Matthew 5:17-19? Read it and there is your answer. The law/Torah is still valid, only the sacrificial law has been done away with.

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Wed 09/01/21 02:29 AM
In Qur'anic Law, you are allowed four wives, as long as you show care for all of them.

The Arab's got that from the Scriptures. The Qur'an is based off of the Scriptures. In Torah, it is lawful for a man to we'd more than one wife, and long as he cares for the second or how ever many other wives he has as the first. None should be lacking when having multiple wives, according to Scripture in the Torah.

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Wed 09/01/21 02:22 AM
Can someone love before having any relationship

Sure! If one loves another individual as them being a human being, yes, but the level of live in regards to intimacy, that's something that must be developed. Anything other than that is infatuation.

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Wed 09/01/21 02:17 AM
Geezer! Someone I recognize! I'm so glad to see you! :hugging:




OT: I think it's acceptable for women to only want sex. People should do what works for them, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. Life's too short not to!

It hurts that person, and other people who sleep with that person. And, why that is so, is because I'm the future when that woman or man wants to finally marry, and they do get married, they've attached themselves to multiple souls, who have different emotional levels and characteristics, physical attributes, and all other sorts of things going on, and that person who has chosen to enter into a life long covenant of marriage, if and when their spouse doesn't add up to what they've experienced with others whom they've created a soul tie with, that's when adultery and infidelity take place in marriages. This is why there are so many divorces in this country and babies out if wedlock, because the view of sex is not regarded as sacred and only to be shared between husband and wife, not just man and woman.

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Wed 09/01/21 02:08 AM
I always thought there was a shaming stigma attached to women who only want sex. In the US you often hear those women being called sluts or whores. At least that was how it was offline, I'm not so sure about online or dating sites. Or if that stigma is still attached. Based on some of the comments I've heard in the forums, it seems to be.

As far as men were concerned, those that were only looking for sex were considered to be "sowing their oats". It was considered normal for the young guys to sow their oats, but young women were supposed to be ladylike. Though I'm not sure who the young men were supposed to have sex with if it was inappropriate for young women to do so, haha.

I believe if a woman wants to seek only sex, that is her business. There is no right or wrong to it, unless she's using sex to hurt others, imo.

Women are still stigmatized by men who are truly looking for love, and many others who respect the gift of sex and it's true purpose of being given to mankind, and that purpose is to be shared between husband and wife, not just man and woman. Sex is spiritual, more than just physical, and every time one has sex with a person, you've joined yourself to that person spiritually for life. That is called a soul tie, which is why sex is only to be shared between a man and woman who vow to be in a covenant agreement before God, and not let no man put asunder, what God has joined together.