But are you unhappy and chafing because you had to wear the blue dress instead? Is the blue dress so horrible and makes you feel so ugly but because you have to wear something you have to keep it?

Are you unhappy and chafing because you couldn't afford the Maybach and the Dodge just makes you terribly unhappy but you have to have a car so dangit, you'll just have to make due and keep wishing you could afford what you deserve?

Can't you still be happy when driving the Dodge while wearing the blue dress?

I'm not saying that one should settle for (and in that case I am using the modifier of "for" rather than "upon" or "down" that does indeed change its meaning) what makes them unhappy. But I do question all that people believe they deserve. Generally, people do not take less than what they want. In clothing, cars, or people. It's counterproductive to take what you don't really like, and I'm not sure many do that.

You say you "deserve" a certain kind of love, and nothing will make you settle for less. OK. Why is that even a question? Who is making anyone do that? Which is why I say that people say that because they can't have what they want so they save face by saying they won't settle.

Is there really a whole lot of either/or things others are making people do? You either have to have this mean person or no one at all! There are only two choices for you! You must be alone forever or 'settle for' this person who is nothing that you want (let alone "deserve".)

I'm just saying sometimes when you settle upon something that maybe wasn't exactly what you wanted it turns out to be the right thing and exactly what you didn't realize you wanted.

I think it goes back to those checklists that some people have about who they'll date. You know, I deserve this and this and that and this so he or she has to be this and that, etc. I threw mine out the window and discovered that there are a lot of people out there who would be great companions and would maybe even broaden my horizons and open up new worlds. I stopped thinking I deserved something specific and decided to look at what was offered and deciding if I liked it.

How does settling mean you're getting less than what you think you should have? Why would anyone do that?

How does settling mean you're with someone who doesn't make you happy and you're miserable but you're gonna stay anyway? Why would anyone do that?

Maybe it's more about how you can't find what you're looking for so mouthing a platitude that doesn't mean much makes you feel better about it?

I don't mean to be contentious and mean, but if you decide upon someone, you've determined he or she is one you want, so you settle upon and settle down.

You're not settling for someone because you can't get who you really want. Or is that what you mean when you say settle?

lol,,,,,,,,wow

its a public forum, are we really expecting to mention 'massive penis' with no one quoting or commenting,,,?

Yup!... Everyone has a right to tell another to stay away.
Although, some don't get it the first go eh? So they should then expect the virtual biotchslap for their chitdisturbing ways

I'd settle until I found the right person

Otherwise if i'm alone for so long, I just get bored.

We take note of the s-i-Z-E of everything.

Whether its a house, diamond ring, bank account, penis, ego, nose, feet, boobs, a$$, mode of transportation, whatever...

And we make choices about what we like or don't, based on our own personal comparisons.

Are you more of a bigger is better type appraiser? Or more of a smaller is more economical type thinker?

Does the size of something influence you more over the outward good or bad looks of it?

This query is open to vast interpretation, so please be gentle while having fun with it.

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Oye


Dodo? Why must you comment on my penis? For future reference, my penis does not concern you, never has, never will...
It is NOT ok for you to quote anything on here in regards to my beautiful penis.

I'm sure there's another thread around where you can post your overused & repetitive melmatian jokes instead?

When I was on here more actively a few years ago, I remember you mentioning something about the your profession and relationships/ you found yourself in. Well, I'm a nurturer whether I want to be or not, it's just in my nature which is why I think I attract people that need to be nurtured. So yeah, a horror stories or series of horror stories

If you aren't willing to commit your heart to him? How could you possibly expect him to commit his to yours? What would be the point of this kind of relationship in the long run? Yeah of course relationships start out this way, but you're stating it as that's all you want. How would this accomplish anything later in life in this same context? Do you not want to grow old with someone?

just say hello i am bla bla whats yours -so tell me about yourself and go from there--talk about anything how about current events if the other person is interest they will hang in there with you if they do not it was just not to be--- good luck--- (hint-women flirt men pursue) - see how easy it is i just chatted you for the first time---'' go for it '' you have nothing to loose and you can make some new friends---finding a friend is nothing more then finding someone with the ''same illusions''

How do you chat when someone messages you? I have no idea what to say and they don't ask any questions. What do people talk about?

I personally (just my opinion here) don't see that it fills any need other than physical. I would never have a one night stand, I need more than that to fulfill my desires. I actually need a connection to begin to make the physical worth the effort. A one night stand would make me feel like less of a person than I know I truly am. I would also feel dirty and nasty, and no amount of water can wash that away. It may be okay for some but not this woman.

Keep talking even if other person is not listening..:)

Have multiple you know what...so there

Its not just the smell or the occasional noises its just a small flat being so close when she is going. Its feels like shes going in the same room etc .

because we're busy trying to take over Texas... someone has to do it... is this something y'all talk about up there in Maryland? Is Texas politics something y'all discuss at the coffee shops and bars?

First, girls DON'T go at work, they are uncomfortable doing so.

Second, when you have kids, you know they poop, right?

Third, I would share your thoughts with her.
Then I think you would never have to worry about her again.

I see your are mainly american on here in the UK pooping is considered quite unladylike like so may be there is different etiquette etc.