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becoming the sole and ample provider of that little nothing thing she used to do/buy for herself to bring a smile.
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Topic:
Afraid Of Falling In Love
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 Can someone really be afraid of falling in love?
 And why?
it's not the fall-thats a rush. it's the sudden stop! |
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Sorry, guess your title threw me. you're right. i couldn't think of a better way to ask. i came thisclose to backing out while trying to think of a better way to ask! |
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I couldn't give a rats ass what the last guy I dated thought, should he see it. 
the focus wasn't really on him or her but you may have a point there! |
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depend completely? heck no, i would say...hardly at all. some people may have difficulty defining themselves with words, while others take extreme liberties. you don't begin to know someone until you talk and meet and you really don't know someone until you live with them. agreed! some have difficulty, many of us embellish/take liberties (how very true! lol). then there's the old 'theres how you see you, how others see you, and the way you are' Isn't that the point of getting to know each other on here, though? That way you'll find out more about what the person is like. it is the first point of contact, per say, but i've seen so many misleading profiles, or ones that have no information, that i've never used them to as a sole deciding factor. and i guess i'm just a forum freak, i think that's the only way to get a more honest snapshot into someone. Yes, I agree about the forums. He had said something about responding to someone based on their profile or an email, so I thought he was just talking about that. The best way to get to know people better is getting into the forums, though. gotcha. its the overall quick choices we tend to make here on the 'net that have me confused/interested. i've always been a 1-1 kind of guy, neither perfect or evil and i've always recognized that we all have different facets of personality that combine to make us who we are. in the real world i take the time to see that combination, to get to know the woman beyond the cleavage, behind the smile, past the carefully positioned stance, hair and makeup. is that possible in the fast world of the internet? yes, there are some terrific forums online. some though, degenerate into self- aggrandizing rants and mob scenes. do many true relationships come out of them? |
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hahahahahahahaha this from someone whose whole profile consists of one word? yes, bud. that doesn't belie nor negate my genuine curiosity. in fact, you have made my point. |
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of course, the profile's intent it to encourage an interest, but i think if you rely upon it, you miss out or on the opposite end of the spectrum, get all excited over nothing. honestly, the forums are a great way to get a better idea about people! so keep posting!! you may be right about the forums, my jury is still out there. as for missing out you hit my ultimate q right on the head - what are the chances that by judging w/out speaking we pass right over the very one that could be 'the one'. . . |
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If you're not going to use someone's profile and pictures to decide if you want to respond to them, how else are you going to decide? i guess i'm commenting on how easy it is to completely write someone off based on -a para or two that can't possibly tell you enough about a person -a pic that 1)is a simple freezeframe, 2)was carefully selected to appeal, 3)may be old or pshopped -a tentative but respectful email intro |
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btw: if you stopped to answer Thanks. the internet meeting/dating thing has me confused.
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depend completely? heck no, i would say...hardly at all. some people may have difficulty defining themselves with words, while others take extreme liberties. you don't begin to know someone until you talk and meet and you really don't know someone until you live with them. agreed! some have difficulty, many of us embellish/take liberties (how very true! lol). then there's the old 'theres how you see you, how others see you, and the way you are' |
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Respect, honesty & trust!  True
growing together recognizing that what the have built has value worth keeping satisfaction co-dependancy (why is that a bad thing??) mutual trust, love and respect |
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should i (or anyone reading it) depend completely on the few written words or pic(s) to decide;
if i want to respond to you? if you're 'the one'? or to stay as far away as possible? now flip 'you'/'your' with 'my'/'my' genuinely curious |
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Topic:
any white sauce recipes?
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Hi, I've always been a big lover of tomato based sauces. The majority of meals are coated by cooked in or smothered by marinara, tomato sauce, ketchup blended or bbq sauce.
Finding out though, that the excess may be the cause / irritant of my recent heartburn makes me want to branch out and try something new. Can you recommend a good white sauce recipe? |
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OK,soo i've already asked where all the cowboy's have gone but,what happened to all the gentlemen?What happened to opening the car door or walking on the outside of the sidewalk,what happened to keeping trash talk for boy time?When did men start thinking that just because i had a cookie that they were entitled to a bite(I'm not talking choc.chip here)Where did treating people with respect slip off to? If i choose to go out with a man it doesn't mean that i have made the choice to take him into my bed. Sorry GUYS i guess you may have came across women that made you think this way,but I don't want to be treated as one of the guys with a piece of ass on the side... I had a man tell me that one time and he thought it was an complement Chivalry still exist. 
but does femininity?! |
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