Never dated anything other than white women, but I have always wondered what a different flavour would be like.

I have no aversion to any sort of colour if you're a good person and connect with me.

I have just never been given the opportunity.

Yeah, color means nothing to me, it's all about the person.

This topic seems rather ambiguous and can generally apply to life as well.

In relationships though, there has to be some sort of want or need fulfilled at the beginning for anything to progress past the lust stage.

People can grow together, but they can also grow apart just as easily.

I've been on the wrong side of this situation. Suffice it to say that person is NOT my friend anymore and that ended our relationship.

You're not anyone's friend if you're doing things like that.

Thanks for all the feedback everyone.

For like I would not travel, too much uncertainty.

For love, however, I definitely would. That being said, if I had to travel for love, a deep seated connection must have to be made which is tough to do online or on the phone. Though it can happen, not sure if it would to me.

Bad language
Gold digger
Not interested in sex

Sex
Food
Hockey
Cell phone
PS3
My kids

Don't be afraid to go outside your comfort zone and take some risks.

Don't listen to your parents. You can make mistakes and learn from them.

Decide what you want out of life and take it.

Don't waste so much money on alcohol.

Pay attention to those who are really your friends. You will see in 10 years which of them actually were.

What am I doing wrong?...or right?

Death at a Funeral

I think you can reconnect if you really want to. Trust is one of the main building blocks of a healthy relationship. If you feel you cannot trust him than it is not going to work. If you have to smother him and check on his every move, either he will get tired of it or you will go insane with insecurity.

You need to take a hard look at your relationship and ask yourself if you can be happy with this person. If the answer is no, then you need to move on.

Nobody should ever have to settle.

Absolutely I do, sometimes you just know. It's not usually just the physical attraction, usually it is also something magnetic that draws you to that person. You may not know what it is or when it will happen. It is true love. I wholeheartedly believe that.

Then again, I am a hopeless romantic.

I'm always looking for new friends.

In the same boat, don't know where to start

How's it goin?

Any advice for a guy new to the site. Kind of shy so making the first move usually doesn't come easy for me.