Ok so u in a relationship for 5yrs. U have expressed many times that u don't care if she has friends. In the past she has said she kept certain friendships a secret because she thought u would get mad. U have explained u won't. Now another so called friend. Once again didn't mention she was even talking to this person. So again she says its just a friend. Can a guy and a girl truly be friends? Not like a high school friend she has known, this someone new that's obviously trying to get to know her. She told him she has a girl but of course that won't stop his advances. And she doesn't stop his advances either. So is this really a friendship or a relationship that's slowly developing and I might as well prepare for the worst. I've seen conversation btw them and they flirt both say its just innocent flirting, but its not. So again do I take it for what it is and say its over? Or can this truly just be an innocent friendship btw a guy and a girl.