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Sun 12/21/08 05:31 PM

Been dating 2 months....He knew I was to be home studying for a major final and wasn't going anywhere all weekend... Saturday at like 6pm he stopped at my house and begged me to go for a ride with him somewhere... I didn't want to go... He said it was to the park... he knew I needed fresh air and yadda yadda.. I obliged like an idiot... He blinded folded me because he set up a surprise there... after 10 mins in the car and knowing the park was closer I took the blind fold off against his wish and realized we were on I4 headed North (to Orlando)... Needless to say he was taking me to Disney last minute and thought he was being romantic... We get there after I sat silent for an hour so ticked off and I told him to drive me home... he said he had a room and tickets for SUNDAY everything planned out... so HE KNEW THIS AHEAD OF TIME as well as knowing I HAD TO STUDY FOR A FINAL... I didn't care made him drive me home in the middle of the night... like a good boy he did... I failed the test... never spoke to him again...


Wow! What a horrible mess. Sheesh, the moral of that story is don't go out with a guy when you have school work to do. I broke a date with a guy since I had to study, and no FINAL!! Yow. Did you pass it, anyway?

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Sun 12/21/08 05:31 PM

Been dating 2 months....He knew I was to be home studying for a major final and wasn't going anywhere all weekend... Saturday at like 6pm he stopped at my house and begged me to go for a ride with him somewhere... I didn't want to go... He said it was to the park... he knew I needed fresh air and yadda yadda.. I obliged like an idiot... He blinded folded me because he set up a surprise there... after 10 mins in the car and knowing the park was closer I took the blind fold off against his wish and realized we were on I4 headed North (to Orlando)... Needless to say he was taking me to Disney last minute and thought he was being romantic... We get there after I sat silent for an hour so ticked off and I told him to drive me home... he said he had a room and tickets for SUNDAY everything planned out... so HE KNEW THIS AHEAD OF TIME as well as knowing I HAD TO STUDY FOR A FINAL... I didn't care made him drive me home in the middle of the night... like a good boy he did... I failed the test... never spoke to him again...


Wow! What a horrible mess. Sheesh, the moral of that story is don't go out with a guy when you have school work to do. I broke a date with a guy since I had to study, and no FINAL!! Yow. Did you pass it, anyway?

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Sun 12/21/08 05:09 PM
I like a man in a un-i-form (nuwave '80's song). Policeman with the full reggalia float MY boat. This gal went out with someone online who was a cop and he was much older than he stated online and to me over the phone. Cops lie in their personal life like anyone else. Watch 'em all. The only one I can trust is God and my dad!

grumble


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Sun 12/21/08 04:55 PM

I've had a couple, and the details have been put here before-

I had one online date (courtesy of another, less-worthy site) once that woulda been okay if she hadn't felt the need to text-message the hell out of herself during the dinner at the nice Japanese restaurant I took her to. The must have text message about once every four or five seconds while we were eating, and she was quite unrepentant about it.

I shoulda left her at the restaurant and hit the local "In n' Out" burger instead.

And THEN there was the flake who (after agreeing to a second date) stiffed me a couple of times followed by her maintaining complete silence afterward. No phone calls, no text messages, no emails, no nuthin'. And one of her online buddies at said dating site decided to call me a "terrorist" at one point, which is something I didn't really appreciate.


#1 can take that bb and put it where the sun doesn't shine and #2 agreed to two dates and pulled that stunt? Very unkind to accept date #2 to act like that. I'm sorry you dealt with the imbeciles.

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Sun 12/21/08 04:41 PM
I have two bad and memorable dates. One was a meal with someone who took money from me and the other was walking me back to my house and had such loud gas that the floor shook under my feet.

And yours?

shocked

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Sun 12/21/08 04:13 PM

shades Finish this sentence: I would never date anyone who ______________.shades


Farts on our date or picks his nose.

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Sun 12/21/08 04:08 PM

no just another thing i've missed out on but hope I meet someone one day that I will do many romantic things withlove

Oh, honey. It's a nice feeling and one that brings a smile to your face and lights up the dark dining room. May that happen for you soon.waving

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Sun 12/21/08 04:06 PM
flowerforyou

flowers Have you ever had (or been treated to) a candlelight dinner?smitten


Has someone wonderful did that for you?

I love it. Yes, a glass of wine and a stuffed animal!
flowerforyou

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Sun 12/21/08 03:54 PM
spock

Relies on his mother in everything!shocked


Uh, I went out that bozo

spock

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Sun 12/21/08 03:32 PM


what's a date?

22nd December, 2008


What's up with the pic of a stethoscope and thing to bang the knee? You forgot a tuning fork, neurologist pic dude!bigsmile I'm taking off my pic and putting up unpowdered gloves.

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Sun 12/21/08 03:28 PM

smile2 Do you like to talk about yourself on a date?smile2


Not really. Little pieces of life, where you've been is o.k. Getting personal waits for a while. When people keep it up incessently, I find it narcisstic.

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Sun 12/21/08 03:25 PM



These are velcro pitchfork


Clunky and not real stylish. That sounds like what my neighbor wears going up the stairs to her apartment..BOOM..BOOM!

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Sun 12/21/08 12:06 PM

Im just a construction worker and strangely enough I would have loved your dinner...Ive been big time and small time...Some years grossing 70k and some 300k but reguardless I was the same person year in and year out..Self worth is not about what you own but who you are ...I associate with many people far out of my financial means especially the last few years but the only time Im intinidated is when I am feeling sorry for myself...Hell if I only worked for those who match my present bank account I wouldnt get any work..This guy had selfesteem issues..Im glad you found out soon and atleast he didnt take you for a ride...


Thanks, jd. LOL, I never grew up with napkin rings, it was just fun.

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Sun 12/21/08 11:20 AM
:wink: We got along and laughed alot. Attraction was there, too. And I made dinner at my place...
Maybe it's a girl thing to go out and have lots of fun, buy napkin rings for our dinner, inexpensive but funky appetizer plates and have a seafood dinner that we both like.
He said, I'm only a construction guy and your used to these things, I'm not. (well, isn't that the point?) Enjoy it then let's proceed with our evening, eh? P.S., he disappeared after that evening, came back nine months later and after a nice evening with his family, two years later! There was a female there, I found out. His "ego" came back after two years and I got calls even early in the a.m. I never picked up (caller ID is a nice thing.) I emailed him and told him I won't be a jack@@$% x 3. That's the end. Bye.
The reason for my post is, you got to keep these guys at an arms length for a very long time until you're sure of their issues. Keep your heart safe at all times, if you can. Be funloving, a good date and good company but hardening up is part of survival mode. Fortunately, dating can be fun! It's fun to laugh and explore and see stuff.

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Sun 12/21/08 08:14 AM
what


Seating at home thinkin about my past G-friend, hoping to meet someone like her. I missed her soul, we had are ups & downs. Tryed to meet new women, but it just dont feel the same. My friends & I go out to the local bar, club, or down to the track, some of the women take one look and keep on walkin by, some smile and walk by. I just want someone to talk to.



Someone"" like her'''? You need to get over of ''her'' first and then find somebody else .Boy! you not ready for another ''her''


I posted below and this is the same issue. I think we were on the same wavelength this morning. These guys waste your time when you were quite obvious in your direction. Is it the chemicals circulating backwards in the male mind?

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Sun 12/21/08 07:54 AM
It depends upon where you are and what you want in going into a website dating arena. I've dated guys off the websites, some I like and some I don't but I have to discriminate upon their motivation and mine. You do have to feel an attraction to talk, hold hands and feel that you want to go further into a relationship. I let it drop when I still hear about "my ex" and my "ex wife" in usual and frequent conversation during a second or third date. Hearing about exes when we are involved in everyday conversation is not conducive to developing an "us". Someone has to be totally over it and moving on to meet "the one" and be forthcoming in their reason for being here. I don't think they're clear in their heads or they are trying to get over it.
Bottom line-if you're not over it or aren't moving in a distinct direction, see a therapist to find your way. The second website issue is without meeting someone and hearing a session for a therapist discussion, they bounce it off you. I'm not a therapist so I quit responding by the second email. Ciao. Adios. Bye Bye.

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Sat 12/20/08 06:29 PM


So I assume that "lower life forms" refers to the determinisitic life.

Then, as the lower (deterministic) life forms combine into more and more complex systems (life forms), at some point, the entire system becomes non-deteministic.

Is that right?
I think we are on the same page, but it has to do with the amount of information and awareness (consciousness) the body of the "life form" is capable of housing.

Most physical objects, (rocks trees, water, sand, plants, animals etc.) have a degree of consciousness. Through evolution, eventually sentience is achieved by the spiritual individual incarnating into these forms.

You didn't think you incarnated into just a human did you?

You probably started as a mineral consciousness.
Ok, I think I've found the biggest difference between our belief systems.

In my belief system, we (as spiritual entities) are eternal. We are not "born" or "created" and we do not "evolve". We simply "change locations and circustances".

As I understand it, in your belief sytstem, we (as sprititual entities) are "born/created" and go through a process of "evolution" that may eventually involve "giving birth to/creating" other spiritual entities that go through the same evolutionary process.

How's that?


frustrated

If you are "eternal," and you don't evolve then you are as smart and as wise and as powerful right now as you ever will be. That is depressing.

I don't know if we are eternal or if as spiritual beings we are "born" or come into being.

I just know that we incarnate as all forms and as we learn about those forms, we move to other forms until we occupy a sentient living form and become aware of who we are and we become aware enough to make conscious choices about what we like and where we want to go and be.

God is beautiful in the simplicity. Your point is based upon a different philosophy more than that of science. It's more theosophy. Science has points but your argument exceeds science. The evolution of plants, animals are different. Anyway, good night. I am a creation and time changes for all of us. May everyone find the Truth and ask for it but base it on Scriptual teaching. It's really cool and amazing for all of us. I'm grateful for the education that I will pursue onward, but am aware of my Source. Time for all of us will change. It is a creation of this world, my friend. Good night!flowerforyou







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Sat 12/20/08 05:56 PM
I look at things through scientific discovery. But in the whole, I think you've forgotten one pertinent, primary point. I and others are believers and followers of the Almighty. Our and everything came into existence through Him.
Please feel free to disagree with me and create an entire scientific point. Time is manmade and possibly influenced but outside of our existence, things totally change. I don't know everything and know quite so little but I'll hand that over to the Creator. Time changes once our time is over. Any argument doesn't work for me. I've learned this and know it does change. I haven't proofread so forgive me if that isn't correct.

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Sat 12/20/08 05:18 PM

so whats up did any of you m/f find anyone you want to be with yet or are ya still looking????flowerforyou love ohwell



I meet some, talk with some and others live too far away. Some have these older man haircuts and that doesn't float my boat and neither does Godiva hair on a guy, at any time and any point. I like me, I gotta like them.
smokin

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Fri 12/19/08 08:04 PM

Now I know why YOU'RE on here on a Friday Night.

I feel lots better about myself.


And what's YOUR excuse? winking

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