I am 53 and have been approached repeatedly on online dating sites by men in their 30s. To be honest I don't really know what to think. The first questions That go through my mind are: do they have mommy issues? Do they want me to mother them, take care of them, nurture them in someway? Are they strictly interested in sex because they think I am experienced and can teach them things? I would perhaps date someone 20 years younger but it would depend greatly on the person and the chemistry and the personality. Just trying to be honest here. When men my age are interested in women in their 20s and 30s, why would men that age be interested in me?

So maybe you don't have one special person to spend today with...you have a whole forum!!! Eat some chocolate and smile. Someone out there loves you and doesn't even know it yet.