I've had a couple of fwb's. Awesome sex, and we're still great friends. Sex can be about the emotions of the moment, not of the 'does he love me forever?' school of thought. Bam. But then I'm an adult responsible for her own sex life and in the past I've chosen very decent human beings for my bed buddies and my relationships. It must depend on the people involved, because I can't understand all your negative comments; a lot of which come from those of you who haven't experienced it and are being a bit judgy wudgy, frankly.