i have a issue with getting attached, and it has has a very negitive impact on my life, bc i have become attached to my x, and my xs kids (thats not the negitive part, knowing them is the positive part) but sometimes being "easily attached" has its positives too... ex; you become attached and maintain healthy relationships with the kids, with your x as a friend, and the endless learning that comes along with the positive and negitives of being so "easily staple gunned to someones side" its a growing thing, either way...