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now THAT's some big hair! lmao wtg gypsy!

backcomb the daylights out of it! side ponys were for younger girls...the catapult bangs were for high school girls..lol

oh..and take pics.. LOTS of pics..this is perfect blackmale stuffs! lol

catapult bangs!!

thank you, i apreciate it

have you read this entire post? i realize it's lengthy, however, read it, and safe yourself from looking like an a$$

first off, do NOT presume you know how much i care about my children, or how concerned about her welfare i am, obviously you didn't read this, or you would understand more, and spew sh*t less

2nd - SRS = CHILD PROTECTION SERVICES

3rd, im 31 yrs old, if i chose to go to a bar and have a drink with a friend, there's nothing wrong with that, and considering i had 1/2 that drink down when the officer returned my phone call, considering the officer knew i was at the bar, and the officer knew i was sober enough to talk to him sensably, i seriously don't think i was doing anything wrong.

4th - you are PREACHIN to the choir when you tell ME that it's no longer about me, but about the children.

had you read this whole thread, you would have concluded that i DO care about my children, and you wouldn't have just attacked me for tryin to do what's best for my daughter, and my older 2 children

thanks for your 'concern'

*UPDATE*

her father finally returned my phone call, i told him i wanted to talk to her before she went to bed, however, i was too late, she was already sleeping

i asked him if i could pick her up tomorrow after school, he said yes, that he'd bring her into school, and i could pick her up, he'd pick her up later that evening, just like normal.

he told me not to question her, he said that she's already spent most of the morning in the hospital getting checked out medically (when i saw her this afternoon, she handed me the wrist braclet so i have that)

he told me that she had to talk with SRS herself, and then he did.

his story, is that he got in from the field last night (he's a farmer), told her it was shower time, and then bedtime, while she was in the shower (he holds the shower head so the water doesn't get in her eyes) he noticed the bruises, and got mad. he took her to the police station once she got her jammies on.

he claims, that 'the situation' is taken care of, his wife's daughter (the one with the baby) claims that our daughter fell, however, she's moving out of the house this weekend.

i asked him if she's the one that did it, he says he's not certain, cuz he wasn't there, but he has a strong feeling it was her, not his wife, or her son.

i told him, i don't keep things from him that pertain to our daughter, it's not fair he does it to me, and that it should stop. he said he was furious last night, and not sure how to respond to my asking if our daughter was ok, that he handled it badly, and he appologized for it. i told him not to let it happen again, cuz above everything, i love my daughter, and want what's best for her, and he knows that, he agreed and said he did too.

now, in NO way, shape, or form is this settling well with me. im still going to talk with the lawyer in the morning, and hopefully get something started in a positive direction for my daughter, even if it's only a temp custody order

i've got to get her out of that house, and away from any danger she's in right now, the sooner the better


keep prayers comin please

i have talked to the SRS woman over the phone, she told me also that she cannot give details, however she'll keep me updated personally.

ddn122- thank you

MsTeddyBear2u - i agree, he isn't abiding by the rules of join custody. my attny for the divorce was from Legal Aide, he will be getting ahold of me in the morning, and i'll see what i can do as her mother about the situation, thank you

apparently, that has to be a judge's decision, instead of SRS or even mine

"Any genuine ladies left?"

nope, we're fresh out...we're all women here..sorry

exactly what is 'gard A beef' lily? lmao *winks*

i may have been unclear..not assume custody, but continue with the custody he has, which is residential, joint, and shared

this is nothing i wish for more, than to have full custody of her right now, with him having every other weekend if even that

ok...i just got off the phone (again)

go with this for a bit ok?


IF his new wife did this to my daughter

IF he presses charges (altho the police already are)

IF he choses to keep his marriage

i've now been told, all he has to do is go to couseling to keep custody of her!? WTF???


anyone? help me understand this?

thanks to everyone that's posted, your advice, your prayers, your thoughts, your conscerns...

thank you to everyone

and if they get divorced over this? then where does that leave us? i can't tell you how much i want her with me, instead of with him

if he sent her to my house, that's his way of 'admitting defeat' on this issue, in HIS eyes, so no, he won't do that..but yes, i do see what you're saying

i'll be here, still at becky's

i don't see what good having police reports from an address would do for me..

considering, according to the officers, my lawyer will have to subpoena the police reports for THIS case, i can't just ask for them, due to it being an 'ongoing investigation'

lily put yourself in his place..

HE brought this woman AND her kids into our daughter's life, and this is the outcome of that grave mistake!

in the mean time, im pissed at him, throwing in my face how long he's known this woman, how wonderful she is blah blah blah, and then THIS happens.

however, i can't blame anyone, i don't feel he had anything to do with it, i think he may have walked in on it, or finally saw something that he HAD to question.

but yes, i AM pissed, and yes i DO blame him to an extent. know who you marry, KNOW who you marry!

firstly, i've called the case worker, she told me that she can't give me information on this case, however, if something happens again, she'll notify me, and once the investigation is thru, she'll send me the 'findings' paper, the paper with the conclusion of the investigation.

also, the divorce papers say nothing about how often i can call, so i'll start calling nightly, so that im the last voice she hears

3rd, the teachers all know of this situation, it started when spring break ended, they all know, and the documentation that i have is from her teacher, and now the officers have copies of those papers also