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Sun 04/13/08 09:41 PM
i see this just like i see my everyday life..

if we start talking (emailing) and we hit it off, whether it's a friend thing, or an interest thing...then and ONLY then do i bother with a friend request

my friends i talk to on a regular basis, not just cuz they're attractive or what-not

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Sun 04/13/08 09:33 PM
something must be wrong with your eyes...i've said the same thing twice now..and it's yet to register...or something


maybe that's why bigblue has repeated that 3 times??

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Sun 04/13/08 09:27 PM
again


MAN UP! just do it already!

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Sun 04/13/08 09:19 PM
man up and just do it...

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Sun 04/13/08 09:01 PM
i personally wouldn't want a country GIRL..

however, i agree with littleredhen...

country guy that knows how to act and dress in the city

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Sun 04/13/08 08:51 PM
Edited by ellgee1976 on Sun 04/13/08 08:52 PM
damn double posts *grumble grumble grumble*

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Sun 04/13/08 08:51 PM

Now that I'm old and wise...


who says you're old mister??

:wink:

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Thu 04/10/08 10:45 PM
awesome..thanx war

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Thu 04/10/08 10:38 PM

Ive been in love....and want it again....but most importantly I want someone who can stay in love.


amen

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Thu 04/10/08 10:31 PM
i can't answer this question, you live too far away and i can't talk to folks far away


laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 04/10/08 10:18 PM

You're darn right I am thinking material here, and so are all of you.


this was you presuming what i asked for in my divorce, material things


it has nothing to do with thinking something is doomed from the start.


it has EVERYTHING to do with dooming the marriage before it starts, there's no trust


I would have to be competely naive not to believe that a majority of the women attracted to me are attracted for reasons other than who I am inside


know who you're marrying before you marry them


prenups are needed to keep peole from getting screwed


prenups are used to guard assets from spouses that aren't trusted...period

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Thu 04/10/08 10:08 PM
Edited by ellgee1976 on Thu 04/10/08 10:10 PM

you never truly know anyone besides yourself. If we did there would not be any divorces. You're darn right I am thinking material here, and so are all of you. If you didn't think material at all signing it wouldn't matter.


if i thought material, i'd have taken him for the house, his truck, and full custody of our daughter, i'd have proven him unfit intstantly with his abuse

i knew him well enough to know, that he wouldn't intentionally hurt our daughter, and needed a vehicle to come get her for visitation..so try not to assume you know wtf you're talkin about with your blanket statements rob, they're very unfair

i never thought of material when i got my divorce

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Thu 04/10/08 10:04 PM

It's ok, the debate has pretty much been weighed in on. The mojority of women believe that they are entitled to anything a man made before they got together. It is pretty much black and white. Unless I get extremely lucky down the road, I will be single for the rest of my life because I will not get married without one


wrong assumption in my opinion

the prenup is unnecessary if, like lily said, you know the person you're marrying

i don't believe i was entitled to anything but MY things, and 1/2 time with our daughter

i have NOTHING of his, and the things i left at his place...like say, my candles, or say, laundry...he brought over, anything of his, i gave to him freely

rob you're focused on the material things, marriage is not about the material things, i think that's where you're thinking is differing from mine

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Thu 04/10/08 09:56 PM



that is you, most women let attorneys talk them into believing they are entitled to the guys high school sports trophies. It does not imply you expect failure. Just as easily as you say it shows the man can walk out without repercussion, the flip side is that she could walk out at anytime without any fears of wondering if it is the right move. Either side you come down on it makes the other look like money grubbers. I made my own way in this life, and will continue to do so, as everyone should. Whatever is gained after the marriage is of course fair game



"most women let attorneys talk them into believing they are entitled to the guys high school sports trophies"

rob, i think that's a blanket statement, not all women do this, it's an unfair statement

add it to the list with greedy


i dunno about other states, but in KS, you have to have been married for a few years before the judge even considers alimony..let alone anything beyond ending the relationship

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Thu 04/10/08 09:50 PM

that is you, most women let attorneys talk them into believing they are entitled to the guys high school sports trophies. It does not imply you expect failure. Just as easily as you say it shows the man can walk out without repercussion, the flip side is that she could walk out at anytime without any fears of wondering if it is the right move. Either side you come down on it makes the other look like money grubbers. I made my own way in this life, and will continue to do so, as everyone should. Whatever is gained after the marriage is of course fair game



"most women let attorneys talk them into believing they are entitled to the guys high school sports trophies"

rob, i think that's a blanket statement, not all women do this, it's an unfair statement

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Thu 04/10/08 09:42 PM
the thing about prenups..is

1. it implies whoever asks for it, has already predisposed of the marriage, doesn't think it will last, or is lookin forward to the divorce

2. it implies you don't trust the person you're marrying


when i left my X hubs, i asked for what i brought into the marriage, which was my furniture, my car, and at least 1/2 time with our daughter

wanted nothing else, and don't regret asking for only those thigns

there was no prenup, but i feel i was already put thru enough, i just wanted the relationship ended

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Thu 04/10/08 09:34 PM

You're a slacker? I still have dishes I have to do from thanksgiving!


umm...re - EWWWWWW!!!

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Thu 04/10/08 09:24 PM

Im against them...its like planning to fail.


has nothing to do with thinking you should be entitled to any assets he had prior to the marriage

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Thu 04/10/08 08:29 PM
click on the highlighted number where it says new testimonials...

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Thu 04/10/08 07:19 PM
to iron, or not to iron...that's the pressing question

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